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I received an e-mail notification of a post on one of my threads on Thursday evening.

 

Luckily, the site team removed it before I was aware...But I read the e-mail :( The post was very abusive and derogatory in the extreme. I cannot help being disabled and falling into debt :(

 

I can't help being disabled with AS, PTSD, OCD, severe agorphobia, dyspraxia, dyslexia and numerous physical conditions...

 

For this, I apologise.

 

I had a very high paying job before becoming disabled. I would rather have my health back than the situation I now find myslf in...

 

For those that give a s***, I'm studying for a degree to better myself and hopefully gain independant employment. What more can I do :confused:

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Hi, babybear39,

 

I am sorry to hear this and surprised!

 

You have been instumental in helping many people, in many posts and what ever the insult was cannot be called for.

 

Given the conditions you have, you are are to be commended not criticised.- and it is to your credit that you spend your time trying to help people and better yourself.

 

Becoming disabled and loosing your ability to work is enough to cope with, but being insulted or ridiculed for it is unforgivable.

I feel for you and have an idea of how upset you must be, as I lost my ability for work for three years. The bigest part of my debt problems startes when insurance stopped paying. You can cover your debts with insurance, obtain a certain standard of living and do everything you can to cover lifes eventuallities, but becoming genuinely unable to work and not being able to accomodate your financial commitments cant be planned for,Lets hope for thier families sakes, it never happens to the them! Its easy to criticise...not so easy to help. well done to you!

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Hi, babybear39,

 

I am sorry to hear this and surprised!

 

You have been instumental in helping many people, in many posts and what ever the insult was cannot be called for.

 

Given the conditions you have, you are are to be commended not criticised.- and it is to your credit that you spend your time trying to help people and better yourself.

 

Becoming disabled and loosing your ability to work is enough to cope with, but being insulted or ridiculed for it is unforgivable.

I feel for you and have an idea of how upset you must be, as I lost my ability for work for three years. The bigest part of my debt problems startes when insurance stopped paying. You can cover your debts with insurance, obtain a certain standard of living and do everything you can to cover lifes eventuallities, but becoming genuinely unable to work and not being able to accomodate your financial commitments cant be planned for,Lets hope for thier families sakes, it never happens to the them! Its easy to criticise...not so easy to help. well done to you!

 

Thank you for your support :)

 

I help here to repay the help I got when I needed it most.

 

Now I'm debt free, I help 'cos there are so many people who need it...

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Let's hope something is done about it.

 

Too many trolls just get away with personal attacks, when there are steps that can be taken by site owners to stop these idiots in their tracks. The laws exist, so why not make use of them??

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HOIST BY THEIR OWN PETARD.

 

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Let's hope something is done about it.

 

Too many trolls just get away with personal attacks, when there are steps that can be taken by site owners to stop these idiots in their tracks. The laws exist, so why not make use of them??

 

Thanks DB, your support is much appreciated :)

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It's one of those things that really gets on my wick.

 

There is this false belief that once you get behind a keyboard on the internet you have total anonymity, and can do and say exactly what you want - even to the point of bullying people or making their lives incredibly miserable.

 

HMG already has the ability to monitor virtually everything you do or say, so the people who visit sites purely to spread poison, lies, and attack other people add weight to the argument the 'net should be policed and censored.

 

Get the IP address and prosecute the ..........(is 'turd' allowed???)

HOIST BY THEIR OWN PETARD.

 

Blimey it works....:-)

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As a disabled member of society (who is also studying for a degree-mine is in criminology and psychology) I am right behind you Babybear. Don't let this piece of **** get you down. You are better than them by a million miles.

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Rise above it BB... you know you can. You'll always get a few sad acts preaching about this and that on here...

 

As someone once posted on another thread.... care in the community just ain't working for these people... ;)

 

Thank you P1 :) Your support means a lot as does that of others here...

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Hi Babybear,

I'm sorry to hear that you have been insulted. I'm not disabled like you, but I have been ill for 14 years and I'm a single mum. You posted a really helpful letter on here last weekend for which I am very grateful, I dont know any of you on here very well, but I can see from the response you are getting that you are liked and appreciated. Hugs and best wishes to you x

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Hi Babybear,

I'm sorry to hear that you have been insulted. I'm not disabled like you, but I have been ill for 14 years and I'm a single mum. You posted a really helpful letter on here last weekend for which I am very grateful, I dont know any of you on here very well, but I can see from the response you are getting that you are liked and appreciated. Hugs and best wishes to you x

 

Thank you, and you're very welcome for my help. This site means a lot to me and to give back makes me feel worthy of the help I received when I came here in desperation.

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BB take no notice of the little sad worm with nothing else to do with his life sorry i mean low life. i have been on this site for a while now and the advice i have seen you post has been very good.

KEEP UP WITH THE VERY GOOD WORK YOU DO

Cheers Paul:-)

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BB take no notice of the little sad worm with nothing else to do with his life sorry i mean low life. i have been on this site for a while now and the advice i have seen you post has been very good.

KEEP UP WITH THE VERY GOOD WORK YOU DO

Cheers Paul:-)

 

Thank you Paul :)

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Hi Babybear, I understand, it leaves you feeling really weird and horrible when a someone attacks you for no reason...its obviously a pathetic little person that has no other power and can only resort to abuse. Hope your ok though :)

 

Get it right up them :mad: We've got your back! ;)

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I am in no way a legal advisor and only speak from my own experiences and the helpful advice of those in the same boat! :p

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