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[borisbeaver]

Just remember, when you've hit bottom, there's only one way to go. Chin up. We're all thinking of you. Keep us posted.

 

Boris

[foolmum]

thankyou....on another thread northerngirl74 has just had 2040 fine.....so wish me luck...

[folle]

you will be fine, when you going to cab , they are very helpful.

Things will get easier xx

[foolmum]

next tues 5 feb....scared ....waiting for all copies of bills to come back.... i know they will not take it though....how did u cope....

folle any tips xxx

[folle]

hi deep breaths , you must try and calm down , i know it is hard from personal experience.

Take every day as it comes, as soon as you get your bills send them in, and believe me if you owe them money, they will just want you to start paying money back each month.

I coped with the help of a very good friend and fantastic gp, i took anti depressants amongst other things, and i found it helped, but i had so much time off work i had to organise, my day.

I used to try and sleep alot of the time time but that did not help. I used to go for long walks with my dog, i know that sounds mad, my heart used to race all the time.

Take each day as it comes , from what you have said you have a beautiful daughter like myself and she is prob a rock to you, try taking your mind off things , easier said than done.

I can promise you it will get easier, it is a year ago this all happened for me, i never thought i would get over it but u do, i haven't forgotten but time is a great healer.

Not long now and you go to cab they will take a big weight off your mind, big hugs xxx

[foolmum]

did any one know in yr works....im trying to act normal but its so hard i cry on my own at break....im a lot calmer than i was but that letter today made me very sick im just trying not to think too much but iits hard. thanks folle there is light at the end.....xxx

[folle]

Hi i did not tell anyone at work, but i was signed off work for over 2 months , so all they knew was that i had a breakdown,ireally feel for you and hope you soon start feeling better xxxx

[foolmum]

thanks just want it over but as u know not going to be a quick fix ... glad u r ok now and getting on with yr life...i hope i get through in one piece xxx

[folle]

it will be over soon, and you will look back on this and wonder what it was all about.

I am getting on with things, not been easy. xx

[foolmum]

cab tomorrow. so scared xxx

[honeybee13]

cab tomorrow. so scared xxx

 

Don't be scared, the CAB are there to help, not shout at people. And you won't be telling them anything they haven't heard before.

 

We've suggested people should go to CAB before, because they often have good contacts, and they seem to have been pleased with how it went. I certainly don't remember someone being told off. What's the point, it's happened and you can't change it.

 

You'll be OK.

[folle]

Hi

Dont be scared , honeybee is right , the cab will help you and give you piece of mind. You will be fine xx

[foolmum]

thanks hb and folle....just my mind working overtime xxxc

[Crocdoc]

I haven't read all the posts, however I agree entirely with Honeybee and Scotgal, you should seek advice as soon as posible from CAB or another free benefits advice centre. To these organisations this is an everday occurence and they have a great amount of experience in dealing with such situations and also have experts on hand to negotiate on your behalf.

 

No one wil judge you or think bad of you in any way, you are very clearly distressed and it is therefore important that you get someone to act on your behalf as soon as possible.

 

There is nothing here that cannot be overcome and the most important factor is your health and wellbeing.

[foolmum]

they were really nice. just got to send in my bills....and wait and see if they r happy.....got to ring the cab when i get a reply......reasured me but still feel sick with worry xxxx

[Crocdoc]

Having read this in greater detail, I am sure that this issue can be resolved.

 

Very best of luck

[honeybee13]

Thank you for the reassurance, Crocdoc.

 

foolmum, I'm pleased the CAB were helpful.

 

HB x

[foolmum]

thanks everyone for the suppor....if worse comes to it will be left paying a lot back the cab think....depends when i send in all the info in...the fact he is not on a electol role doesnt help but i know the truth he wasnt with me....just a fool for letting him use this address.........so just going day by day ....

[folle]

hi , so how did it go at cab xxx

[foolmum]

really helpful ....just got to send in my stuff and wait which i knew....but it could be the two yrs as no proof....

[foolmum]

sending all my stuff in plus a covering letter tuesday.....think i need some luck xxxx

[northerngirl74]

fingers crossed, i'm just waiting to find out if they accept my repayment offer, they have for the fine but its just the overpayment xx

[scotgal68]

Good luck Love, youve paid your penance in worry alone x

Here's to some stress free living for you xxxx

[scotgal68]

You as well NG, hope it works out for you x

[northerngirl74]

thank you

 

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