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I'm sick and tired of people slandering me.

It has been bought to my attention that a person from my past has been spreading lies about me.

 

Is there a template letter that I can send to them to make them stop?

A Cease & Desist maybe?

 

Any info highly appreciated

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Hi bwdski :)

I thought you might be interested in this site I have discovered,it is expertlaw.com/library/personal_injury/defamation.html (about slander and defamation of character) give it a good read and it may give you good advice that you need right now,if this fails take yourself down to your local CAB or give them a call.

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Hi bwdski :)

I thought you might be interested in this site I have discovered,it is expertlaw.com/library/personal_injury/defamation.html (about slander and defamation of character) give it a good read and it may give you good advice that you need right now,if this fails take yourself down to your local CAB or give them a call.

 

Thanks mate for the info - will give it a good read through

Quite an interesting piece, but American !

 

Indeed, looking for UK info really, but might be good to get pointers

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Hi StormWarrior:)

Yes you are right, I suppose I was more concerned with the contents.I know I am not an expert in law and I am not quite sure how much American and English Laws differ,I just hope some,if not all of the info will help. x:)

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The biggest problem with Defamation cases is the cost!

 

The costs of a defamation action are likely to be substantial. An action for defamation must be started in the High Court which is very expensive. Legal Aid is not available and the you may be left with a great deal of legal costs to pay. Indeed you may at an early stage be required to deposit funds with the court as an indemnity for future costs. Whilst this would be recoverable in a successful case it does mean a considerable investment at an early stage.

 

It's one of the reasons only rich people sue for defamation.

I don't always believe what I say, I'm just playing Devils Advocate

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Only problem is if this person can prove (somehow) that they have reason to believe it is true then you are wasting your time, i am no specialist but slander is a hard one.....

Long time ago in a galaxy FAR FAR AWAY, there lived an elf who shot banks for a living.........

Now through the power of the internet there is the CONSUMER ACTION GROUP,

 

Watch out they are getting crafty those pesky CRITTERS!

 

Banks will tell you their charges are transparent!

So is the invisible man but that does not mean he is fair or lawful.

 

DONT GIVE UP! FOLLOW THE CAG ADVICE AND RECLAIM YOUR CHARGES.

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Only problem is if this person can prove (somehow) that they have reason to believe it is true then you are wasting your time, i am no specialist but slander is a hard one.....

 

cheers mate.

 

Just thinking out loud here...

 

Is there a letter I can send to the individual and their family to stop them contacting me or my Girlfriend again?

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I've afraid my understanding on this is similar to what has already been said. As an average individual you have virtually no practical protection against slander for two reasons (a) it is very expensive to prosecute and difficult to prove (b) the sums you are likely to be awarded are comparatively low unless you are in the public eye.

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I think they may be more worried about getting it stopped, rather than cashing in

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I dont see why not, it is your human right to live your life in peace and harmony free from certain crap etc.. so you should be able to send them something telling them you do not wish them to contact you or yours again...the european human rights act has something on this but i dont know how to go about finding it...if this was to be backed up in court you would need to provide proof of harrasment and apply for a court order or injunction.

good Luck

Long time ago in a galaxy FAR FAR AWAY, there lived an elf who shot banks for a living.........

Now through the power of the internet there is the CONSUMER ACTION GROUP,

 

Watch out they are getting crafty those pesky CRITTERS!

 

Banks will tell you their charges are transparent!

So is the invisible man but that does not mean he is fair or lawful.

 

DONT GIVE UP! FOLLOW THE CAG ADVICE AND RECLAIM YOUR CHARGES.

CAPITAL BANK! YOU ARE NEXT.

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I've afraid my understanding on this is similar to what has already been said. As an average individual you have virtually no practical protection against slander for two reasons (a) it is very expensive to prosecute and difficult to prove (b) the sums you are likely to be awarded are comparatively low unless you are in the public eye.

 

Thanks for the input

 

I think they may be more worried about getting it stopped' date=' rather than cashing in[/quote']

 

I have no intention of receiving any monies from these ****, the least I have to do with them the better

 

I dont see why not, it is your human right to live your life in peace and harmony free from certain crap etc.. so you should be able to send them something telling them you do not wish them to contact you or yours again...the european human rights act has something on this but i dont know how to go about finding it...if this was to be backed up in court you would need to provide proof of harrasment and apply for a court order or injunction.

good Luck

 

Thanks delboytrotter.

Am looking for a "Letter Before Action" kind of thing.

Seems that I'm fighting a losing battle with regards to stopping them slandering me....

 

Just want them out of my life

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The more I think of this, the more annoyed I'm getting.

 

There must be a template somewhere that I can use to tell them to leave me alone.

I don't want them to approach me or my family again.

This is going beyond a joke and is threatening to ruin my relationship with my girlfriend

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How are they contacting you?

 

In certain cases a restraining order or ASBO may be applicable I believe.

 

They're telling lies about me to my Girlfriends mother, who passes everything on to her.

 

I'm absolutely livid right now.

Maybe a mountain out of a mole hill, but I'm sick and tired of it

 

Want to get a letter out to them before I get the law involved

Needs to be a letter because I'll lose my rag if I talk to them directly

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Well then is that not down to a) your girlfriend listening to you (and not them) and b) your girlfriend's mother to take out an order depending what's appropriate?

 

My Girlfriend listens to her mother and has assumed it's true (The lies)

I think my girlfriends mother likes hearing these things, so she can pass them on.

 

Want it nipped in the bud before it gets out of hand

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