Evicting partner

[2stepsforward]

Hello

 

I'm in a really difficult situation at the moment,

 

this is not something new, my partner is drinking around 20 to 30 units of alcohol per day, and I think they neglecting our child, I have set up a IP camera in our living room and you'd be shocked to what I have come across! 

 

I'm in a position where I need my partner to leave I have asked them but they have refused and turned into a big argument,

 

I am the main tenancy holder, I am staying calm and the environment is currently calm,

 

I feel our children are at risk when they are drunk when I am not around but not so much because of aggression but because of the constant intoxication of alcohol misuse,

 

I have found video clips of them passing out drunk and the children crying for over 40 minutes without them moving, the children have not been having cooked meals when I am not home, they shout and swear at the children when they are crying,

 

I have one clip where one of my children is slammed down on the floor and also my child had fallen off the sofa backwards while my partner was sat right next to them and did not even try to stop this and when it happened just sat there!

 

this made my suspicions come out when one of my children had low iron levels and underweight and I really needed know why so that is why I set up a hidden camera! 

 

What steps do I take to resolve this?

 

I have been supportive as possible over the past two years but I have got know where, I feel its time I need to take action and quickly!

[dx100uk]

this is not something for this forum.

 

i would immediately follow this advice

 

Reporting child abuse - Citizens Advice

WWW.CITIZENSADVICE.ORG.UK

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What to do if you are concerned that a child is being abused.

 

[2stepsforward]

Thank you, I am going to call the police right away! I have found more going into the video clips, I apologise this is not for this group, but I appreciate the advice you have given me

[dx100uk]

you are more than welcome. please keep us updated. we will help and support...really anything .. fire away... seriously

 

the comment was not meant in the vain of 'don't post such stuff here go away' more that, it's not something a forum ever have to deal with, it's for the correct authorities to deal, we can't be seen to speculate.

 

believe me when i say you are NOT alone in your situation (i can say that from my 1st person experience) and it's great you posted here , your 1st steps in a very long but fruitful journey. been there done that. chin up. please use us and call for help on anything..

 

dx

siteteam ( the early hours one)

 

 

[2stepsforward]

Thank you so much for your fast response on that night, I was emotional, scared, panicking and my mind just shut off.

 

I can honestly say after calming down, I responded correctly from the link you provided, I also contacted 101,

 

I booked a hotel and waited until Monday morning where I contacted my solicitor and was fast to respond and we had a emergency court case that afternoon I managed to get legal aid, the court is still on going, overall its been a great turn out and I'm glad my children are now safe. 

 

My "EX PARTNER" has been arrested and charged with child abuse and a couple of other things, she sectioned under some category receiving psychiatric help and is currently not allowed near the children.

 

Hopefully my children will now have a brighter future that is going to be very positive.

 

I just wanted to come back and let you guys know as you said to keep you updated