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    • My understanding is that they won't provide the name to me whether the investigation is Live or Closed, & I have no legal rep as I didn't have P.I. Cover on my policy, & am intending to claim using OIC.org.uk, but remain completely stuck as they 100% cannot open a claim on the portal without both the Reg. No. & Name of the other driver.  
    • thanks again ftmdave, your words are verey encouraging and i do appreciate them. i have taken about 2 hours to think of a letter to write to the ceo...i will paste it below...also how would i address a ceo? do i just put his name? or put dear sir? do you think its ok?  i would appreciate feedback/input from anybody if anything needs to be added/taken away, removed if incorrect etc. i am writing it on behalf of my friend..she is the named driver  - im the one with the blue badge and owner of the car - just for clarification. thanks in adavance to everyone.       My friend and I are both disabled and have been a victim of disability discrimination on the part of your agents.   I have been incorrectly 'charged' by your agent 'excel parking' for overstaying in your car park, but there was no overstay. The letter I recieved said the duration of stay was 15 minutes but there is a 10 minute grace period and also 5 minutes consideration time, hence there was no duration of stay of 15 minutes.   I would like to take this oppertunity to clarify what happend at your Gravesend store. We are struggling finacially due to the 'cost of living crisis' and not being able to work because we are both disabled, we was attracted to your store for the 10 items for £10 offer. I suffer dyslexia and depression and my friend who I take shopping has a mobility disability. We went to buy some shopping at your Gravesend branch of Iceland on 28th of December 2023, we entered your car park, tried to read and understand the parking signs and realised we had to pay for parking. We then realised we didnt have any change for the parking machine so went back to look for coins in the car and when we couldnt find any we left. As my friend has mobility issues it takes some time for me to help him out of the car, as you probably understand this takes more time than it would a normal able bodied person. As I suffer dyslexia I am sure you'll agree that it took me more time than a normal person to read and understand the large amount of information at the pay & display machine. After this, it took more time than an able bodied person to leave the car park especially as I have to help my friend on his crutches etc get back into the car due to his mobility disability. All this took us 15 minutes.   I was the driver of my friends car and he has a blue badge. He then received a 'notice to keeper' for a 'failure to purchase a parking tariff'. On the letter it asked to name the driver if you wasnt the driver at the time, so as he wasnt the driver he named me. I appealed the charge and told them we are disabled and explained the situation as above. The appeal was denied, and even more so was totally ignored regarding our disabilities and that we take longer than an able bodied person to access the car and read the signs and understand them. As our disabilities were ignored and disregarded for the time taken I believe this is discrimination against us. I cannot afford any unfair charges of this kind as I am severely struggling financially. I cannot work and am a carer for my disabled Son who also has a mental and mobility disability. I obviously do not have any disposable income and am in debt with my bills. So its an absolute impossibility for me to pay this incorrect charge.     After being discriminated by your agent my friend decided to contact 'iceland customer care team' on my behalf and again explained the situation and also sent photos of his disabled blue badge and proof of disability. He asked the care team to cancel the charge as ultimately its Iceland's land/property and you have the power over excel parking to cancel it. Again we was met with no mention or consideration for our disability and no direct response regarding the cancellation, all we was told was to contact excel parking. He has replied over 20 times to try to get the 'care team' to understand and cancel this but its pointless as we are just ignored every time. I believe that Ignoring our disability is discrimination which is why I am now contacting you.     I have noticed on your website that you are 'acting' to ease the 'cost of living crisis' : https://about.iceland.co.uk/2022/04/05/iceland-acts-to-ease-the-cost-of-living-crisis/   If you really are commited to helping people in this time of crisis ..and especially two struggling disabled people, can you please cancel this charge as it will only cause more damage to our mental health if you do not.  
    • I've also been in touch via the online portal to the Police's GDPR team, to request the name of the other Driver. Got this response:   Dear Mr. ---------   Our Ref: ----------   Thank you for your request which has been forwarded to the Data Protection Team for consideration.   The data you are requesting is third party, we would not give this information directly to you.   Your solicitor or legal team acting on our behalf would approach us directly with your signed (wet) consent allowing us to consider the request further.   I note the investigation is showing as ‘live’ at this time, we would not considered sharing data for suggested injury until the investigation has been closed.   If you wish to pursue a claim once the investigation has been closed please signpost your legal team to [email protected]   Kind regards   ----------------- Data Protection Assistant    
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    • Hi everyone, Apologies for bringing up the same topic regarding these individuals. I wish I had found this forum earlier, as I've seen very similar cases. However, I need your help in figuring out what to do next because we've involved our partners/resellers. I work as an IT Manager in a company outside of the UK. We acquired a license from a certified reseller (along with a support agreement) and also obtained training sessions from them. The issue arose when we needed to register two people for the training sessions, so we used an external laptop for the second user to keep up with the sessions for only a month. During this period, the laptop was solely used for the training sessions. After two weeks, my boss forwarded an email to me from Ms Vinces, stating that we are using illicit software from SolidWorks. Since this has never happened to me or anyone we know, I went into panic mode and had a meeting with her. During the meeting, we explained that we were using an external laptop solely for the training sessions and that the laptop had not been used within the company since her email. She informed us that for such cases, there are demos and special licenses (though our reseller did not mention these types of licenses when we made our initial purchase). She then mentioned that we had utilized products worth approximately €25k and presented us with two options: either pay the agreed value or acquire SolidWorks products. We expressed that the cost was too high, and our business couldn't support such expenses. I assured her that we would discuss the matter with the company board and get back to her. After the meeting, we contacted the company reseller from whom we purchased the license, explained the situation, and mentioned the use of an external laptop. They said they would speak to Maria and help mediate the situation. We hoped to significantly reduce the cost, perhaps to that of a 1-year professional license. Unfortunately, we were mistaken. The reseller mediated a value €2k less than what Maria had suggested (essentially, we would need to acquire two professional lifetime licenses and two years of support for a total of €23k). This amount is still beyond our means, but they insisted that the price was non-negotiable and wouldn't be reduced any further. The entire situation feels odd because she never provided us with addresses or other evidence (which I should have requested), and she's pressuring us to resolve the matter by the end of the month, with payment to be made through the reseller. This makes me feel as though the reseller is taking advantage of the situation to profit from it. Currently, we're trying to buy some time. We plan to meet with the reseller next week but are uncertain about how to proceed with them or whether we should respond to the mediator.
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Much as I love Christmas, it is too commercialised. Why not just remane it Chocolatemas? I've been trying to find an advent calander that does not have chocolate in it. When I was wee they used to have glittery Christmas trees and snowmen on them or a nativity scene. Now it's High school musical or The Simpsons. The supermarkets are full of sweets & chocolate then the minute Xmas is over they fill the shelves with keep fit stuff and diet foods!! Every one should have a decent brake over Xmas - do we really need supermarkets and other shops open on Boxing Day?

Anyway apart from that , Merry Christmas!

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I havent celebrated Christmas for years because it means nothing to me. People say to me, 'why dont you celebrate it for your daughter, so she doesnt miss out on presents.??

My reply is 'And teach her to take part in an anual holiday that means nothing to us?'

I will not teach my daughter to drift through life questioning nothing & just being a sheep.

So, I celebrate new year instead. Something that has much more meaning to me. My daughter & I decorate the house with new year decorarions & give new year presents. Something much more worth while I feel.

 

Some people seem to get offended when I tell them I dont celebrate Christmas. Like its something they have also wanted to do but never had the courage. Its a funny old wold sometimes.

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Lots of people don't celebrate Christmas for lots of different reasons and that is their choice and that choice should be respected!

However it also works the other way round. You can't call everyone who celebrates Christmas a sheep just because the majority of people in this country do the same thing!

That is their choice for whatever reason and that should also be respected!

 

I love Christmas by the way!:D

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Yeah but he's wearing pants :D

 

Oh! and wouldn't the feathers get in the way lol

 

... but I can see up those pants.... lol

 

.... and those feathers would be ripped off with all that testoterone-charged scrambling to get down the chimney.... :D

 

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D'ya know what? I love christmas with a passion!!!

 

I know it's commercialised, I know it's a big money-spinner, and I know it's a bit contrived! But the thing is................ I really love it!

 

I love the fact that my dad's gonna sit on one of the sofas huggin' a bottle of wine (that I'll desperately try to wrestle off him!); I love the fact that my mum will be pis*ed as a fart on Bailey's and then announce to the entire house that she's "having a hot flush" (even though she's 65 - bless her!") And I love seeing everybody that I love in the whole wide world happy, contented, full of food, full of drink and generally "happy"!!!

 

I love it when somebody starts an argument about the 'game' they're playing with the kids............. usually because 'somebody' hasn't read the instructions right in the first place! Therefore, the kids totally whoop their asses!

 

And I love it most of all cos it's a time when I remember my brother - cos he died 2 days before christmas day 15 years ago. :( So we make it a special occasion for "being family" in his memory. And I always remember how much he loved christmas day........... so we "big it up" in his memory!!! :)

 

But most of all................ I love the thought of it. And if it costs that little bit extra, then so be it! Cos even though (like everyone else!) I can ill afford the expense, I'll take the sentiment of the whole spectacle................................ and look forward to it every time!!!!! ;)

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Hedgey - don't do Christmas for reasons already posted - but still do Boxing Day as if it some sort of party - brother, parents etc. but still not right as son does own thing, just comes down to say hello and back up to pit . No real joy in this house unfortunately.

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Totally understand Woolley............ it's about what we all feel comfy doing at the end of the day. So whatever makes you happy sweetie, that's what you've gotta do.

 

It's the holidays - so everybody should do what they're happy doing - as opposed to what peeps think they should do. x ;)

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My stomach goes in knots at the thought of Christmas! I loved all the preparations and excitment when the children were little - it was really done for them then. Now they are 23 and 18, they still have a stocking to unwrap in bed and I just do little mini stockings for the table filled with miniature drinks, chocs, little bit of jewellery for everyone. Elderly parents stay (each Christmas I am aware it may be their last) so really it is a time of celebration that we are all still together. Old friends drop by for drinks in the morning and I really don't bother about when the main meal is ready - its ready when its ready and not a minute before! We then have all the leftovers on Boxing Day (I much prefer this day) and parent toddle off home and then I can chill out! Christmas is what you make of it mentally and each year I have spent as little as possible financially - I shall use up the spare cards from last year and not buy any more. The tree will go up on 17th (day before daughter's birthday) and I then start to get into the spirit of the occasion but I absolutely detest shopping and all the false bonhomie - bah humbug!:D

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Christmas for us with 4 lads has always been really hectic. Traditionally, for the last 25 years we had never spent Xmas Night in our own house. Until my parents both passed away in October 1999, we (and my 3 sisters & brother & their familys) spent Xmas night from about 7 o'clock onwards at Mom & Dads opening presents (kids only) and playing silly games (everyone). After 1999 we carried on the tradition at one or the other of our houses but it was never really the same as grand children had come along and present giving had to be cut back cos there were so many. So last year when we got together to arrange Christmas night I decided to make a stand and said sorry, hubby & I would like to spend Xmas night in our own house for once wih just our own offspring. After the initial complaints-it was agreed that we would do our own thing & get together on Boxing Night instead. Great sucess!!! So much so that everyone has all agreed that our get together this year will be New Years Eve. Just goes to show that the perfect Christmas is each to their own!!

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of course it is, life is always what you make it, we are all different and we all enjoy different things. Christmas is not all about spending money, I have no religious beliefs myself, so I join in anyone`s celebrations who will have me! Jewish, muslim, St Patricks day, any excuse for a knees up! But Christmas is special, the atmosphere and the build up is unique. I marvel each year how I manange to find the money, but find it I do. We have just had our first Chrismassy weekend with my sisters and we had a brilliant time. ( Jimmy Carr was cracking by the way) If I found anyone who was on their own on Christams Day, I would feel duty bound to invite them round rather than have tham on my concience. I have done this in the past and if peeps say they prefer to spend Chrissy on their own then that is fine at least I have offered. Come on peeps, you are a long time dead, my lovely nephew died died last year aged 46, I am glad he made the most of his life, he was the life and soul of every party and sadly missed. You never know what is around the corner. Most of the peeps on here will have had or are still having financial problems, these are minor to what some people have to go through. So all you bah humbugs out there, "GET IN THE CHRISTMAS SPIRIT" :D

 

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Oi, St Hils, your halo is slipping! :razz:

 

Thing is, what makes you obviously thrive is the opposite of what makes me thrive! Nothing to do with being long dead, I just don't like the hustle and bustle and all the activity in general. My idea of an ideal Christmas is to be somewhere hot and non-Christian so they don't even have Christmas there, a good book, and enough cash to keep on topping up my glass of Diet Coke.

 

Add to that the fact that my youngest son is Asperger's Syndrome, so that excitement and surprises and sensory over-stimulation are too much for him to handle. As a result, previous xmases have often ended up with being just too much stress for us parents trying to keep his stress levels down, and for him being unable to process all that was going on around him, invariably leading to meltdown.

 

As the kids are getting older, every year, we are turning the level of decorations and celebrations down a notch further, until hopefully we won't have to do much, and even, with luck, not have to do it at all. Once we're only left with our youngest (the one with AS), we might even be able to get what we want for xmas, that is the warm place described above where we don't have to have anything to do with xmas at all. Now that would be bliss. *sigh*

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