Oh dear...sounds like everything has just got too much for you You sound quite depressed to me, I would make an appointment with your GP if I were you Once you feel a bit better then you will be able to deal with things a bit better Best wishes

Hi Was wondering if anyone could help us understand please My husband is a nurse in community and for past 14 or so years has had a lease car Over the last 3 years his salary suddenly reduced by around £300 pm, despite his working unsociable hours (weekends, evenings) greatly increasing. Neither of us are great with understanding tax, but my hunch has always been that there is an error with his code, and with him having a lease car. Is there a difference regards tax between a lease car and a company car, he pays for all his petrol His tax code, we are told is low as he has this car....have contacted HMRC many times, but have got no joy! Many thanks in advance

Hi, So sorry to hear of your debilitating illness, it might be worth asking your GP to ask Mental Health Team if they could allocate you a CPN ( community psychiatric nurse) Unfortunately all other therapists that will offer CBT etc, do tend to work from their base, which is obviously not something you are able to manage at the moment. Do you mind me asking how long you have been suffering?