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  1. Hi guys, my sister and her friend have a similar question so I thought I ask here because it seems little complicated. The more mouths to talk to the worse it gets. My sisters friend has bad marriage and she has waited until the kids are grown. One is 19 and other is 21 or 22. now she wants out of a verbal / psychological abusive marriage. Question is the following. They live in one property and 2nd is rented out. So therefore 2 properties and as kids are now adults they dont come into the equation. They have no savings and as for goods in the house I am sure no party will fight over that. How will it work with the properties? Both sold and money divided? Can one choose the house they wish to have? At the moment register search has not been done from my understanding both parties names should be on there. My sister is in the same situation with 2 houses and kids all grown up. Both ladies want out. Also is there free divorce help or helpline or somewhere I can guide them too? Many thanks.
  2. thank you. What he wants to do either pay the £8000 over some time, lets say a year or get paid more as hes qualified with masters degree. initially the contract was for boots specs however the talk is uni professors did not get enough kick back so therefore they said either go else where or get what you are given. some even traveled 100 miles for there placement. as the contract had alot of ifs and buts students were stuck. whole purpose of the degree was that they worked for boots. Student union or visit to some cheap solicitor is in order.
  3. Hi guys, my nephew is training to be a optometrist. Part of his university deal was he would he a one year work experience and in 4th year do some research and get a masters. Part of the deal was either pay £8000 to the store of training or work for one year after qualification for one year. £8000 covered his training and help along with perk of working and being paid minimum wage. It also covered the cost of the “mini masters”. (one year he has worked, got paid £7.00 odd pounds and was treated like crap, little training and a lot of shouting) Now he is going to have his masters soon in July and does not have the £8000 to get out of the contract. The store was not of his choosing in fact got cheated by his university. The store paid absolutely the worse wages of any of his class fellows. After qualification he is going to get minimum wage only. Main problem is either he drives to work or catches a train. Driving is 2 hours per shift and train is about 3.5 hours. Having had a word with the store owner he said all he is going to pay for 12 months is minimum wage and he is not obliged to pay more. So we need help with either negotiating or getting out of the contract. We simply do not know what to say or do to either convince the director to take the £8000 in installments or pay more. Please note if my nephew works for minimum wage he will be earning 1/3 of his class fellows. Ali
  4. close it....it will not get positive after his response. - - - Updated - - - back up what you say.....
  5. Hi guys, this is an odd one, bare with me. A couple hired a car and the same night broke their window. Few minutes later the gang they had planned with drove away the car. Some time later when the tracker was removed or when it was secure they alerted the couple. Few minutes later they called the police. The story the couple used is we were asleep, we were woken by some noise and after looking for the cars etc we realized the keys were missing and that the window was broken. Unknown to them their tenant over heard many things including them visiting the gang leader few times to claim their money. He also over heard the couple explain to the police and some insurance people including the person they had hired the car from. All the tenant knows is name and color of the car and rest of the above including the gang leaders name. Now with the above information if he goes to the police I am sure police have absolutely nothing to go on. However if he takes a lie detector test and with a written statement via a solicitor police might do something however the lie detector test is not accepted. So only conclusion is to find the insurance company as they use these methods. So I am sure if he goes via the insurance company he may get better results of them being prosecuted? What is the best method of them being screwed over this crime. (the tenant is their relative. He stayed until his studies were over, as he declined to marry the wife's relative, things went sour. They informed his family who were also backing the tenant with finance for studies many stories which forced them to stop. He failed to do his masters and had to take a rubbish job. Many years later now he has discovered all this.) This crime is at least 6 years old. Anyone know the best way of them being done for this crime. BTW they got cheated. The gang leader did a runner and when he appeared he said the car was stopped by Nigerian customs. So no sale no produce. Ali
  6. thank you so much, however, from what i saw, the paper work was clear, they were hearings not investigation. he was informed they will be attached to his employment record etc. sexual harassment he is less worried about as quite frankly unless for the coffee almost everyone avoids her. i was in pc world for 10 years. he has been there 4 years now i think. i will not be supprised if they are too stupid to presue any of the hearings. thank you once again.
  7. Hi guys, please advise. Friend of mine was pulled into the office and told he is having a disciplinary. One lady took notes as the manager and my friend spoke. It was simple. My friend was accused of harnessing the 3rd party in store tea lady. Harassment was of sexual nature. My friend understood it as flirting. Now my friend is very clear he has not and will not flirt with that lady. Nor has he spent any longer with the exchange with her then anyone else ordering a coffee. This came to him as a shock and out of the blue. He was given the paperwork of the disciplinary same day. Many months have passed and nothing has happened. Same thing happened to him few weeks later. He was pulled into the office, out of the blue and was told this is another disciplinary. This time he is being accused of being rude to a customer. Infact customer was told to either spend more money or go else where. Again my friend 100% disagrees that this ever took place. Again all the paperwork of the notes and signatures were given to him. No further word of any disciplinary have been uttered. No follow ups. No further meetings etc. both were first level disciplinarian. Am I correct in thinking these can be used against him if he was up for promotion into management? Also was he not supposed to be given a warning, letter stating in 7 days you have this and that go seek legal help? What is the correct procedure? What can he do? Both of them are now close to 2 months old. From my basic knowledge the way both hearings were conducted are illegal. Now that his wife is pregnant, they need to move to bigger house and hes in a position where he can request SIM and move to another store, he is worried. He works for one of the Dixon retail stores.
  8. please can you give me a link to somewhere it says 540 and 120 please. i beg you. Ali
  9. https://www.wintrillions.co.uk/ Dear friends, In december after looking around subscribed https://www.wintrillions.co.uk/. I then contacted them either by phone, email or live chat to cancel and refund the subscription. This may, few weeks ago I found out they had charged me 3 more times. Not the same subscription but 2 weeks after the initial subscription and request for cancel and refund they decided to charge me more amounts on 22nd and 23rd December 1017. I got a call in January and said no thank you to this mega millions jackpot and they charged me again. When I found out I contacted them they said I would get a refund. Made many more contacts and saved one of the chat scripts, where the lady was told the whole story and said the refund would be made today. I waited further and sent them voice messages and emails to confirm this has been done. I spoke to the same lady yesterday on the 21/05/2018 and she denied all this and then when I sent her the chat script she played the word game. Twisting everything. My bank said the 120 days for visa dispute is over and it is not fraud as I had given them my details. Important points are. They call it subscription but its one of payments. Also they charged me 4 times for 4 totally different products. With varying amounts. What can I do please? I want my money recovered. Ali
  10. Hi. I want to find my missing cousin. He left his house with limited money, clothing and ran of with his wife. Shes the devil. now issue is he does have history of some mental stability, so we can say depression and few other issues. HOWEVER not enough to convince the police to start a man hunt. Now most companies are saying £200 or around about to find him. HOWEVER they wont tell us where he is, however they are willing to speak with him and give him contact numbers, emails and request him to make contract. £200 is not an issue. what i want to know is there any tools i can use to find out where he is and also how do i get them or any private investigation team to give me his contact or residence address. 27/12/2017 his grandma died. His dad who looked after her for 60 odd years is in a bad way. there are a lot of finance and other aspects which we need him for. we are 90% sure of where he can be however we cant just go in. if i can have the tools to trace and find him would be the best. also how do i make sure i am not going to get ripped off by these companies? Ali
  11. look man...look...how do i verfy shes real. She did say £300 is for her time and what ever happens in that time is through mutual consent. Am i in trouble? we have all heard stories of plumpers and housewives? milkman and the mrs? Right? so therefore professioanls do end up loving and cressing and nibbling on clients toes and nipples and ear lobes. she was fantastic. i wonder if two years contract period had her training in clinet care... Bro from coffee to the end bit was a joke, me trying to crack a funny one as i was in a good mood for the first time in months. yes shes legit. 27 years in the business and was older then my mother if she was alive today. very professional. All is good. Thank you.
  12. Coffee? Shirt? Biscuits? Photos? Home visit? Are we able to ban or block individual users from posting on threads?
  13. Firstly my account and pc is secure and so is my internet. I am solo using this account and sometimes I do use office writer or now Microsoft Word. When there are mistakes and grammar issues, it is either I am not interested, in a hurry or even better think the message is clear enough so no need for any perfection. Most people who read, read my posts know I have few issues. I will list them again. Primary issue with me is depression and secondary is social anxiety. I dislike no one here as I am unable to dislike due to suppression of emotions and feelings since 1988. BazzaS has been picking apart my story which is too simple even for a 12 year old. Instead thinks he his helping some how. I am not sure how instead of asking the question hes trying to do autopsy on my text. He has been downgraded to stupid. However I got reasons as stated here and previously. However he has been elevated to strawberry now so all is well fine and good. My original mistake was not making it clear that I wanted some kind of direction. Now I know the only solution is though a legal process which will cost and will bring harm to a otherwise peaceful household. Now that even new people have joined the kicking the downed person other then BazzS. I REQUEST someone from the team, site team to close this post. For 3 to 6 weeks there will be no further updates, unless in the meantime my brother who has been threatening to do family conference takes action on that. He will further need to do something as our land, which is our! Has been sold and money will be divided 3 ways. The whispers in the household are he feels along with the witch that the money is theirs. I feel the only thing in court of law, lawyers and anyone else should be concerned with is my inheritance claim. Why would my other properties or his or my business come into play? So therefore 1,2 or 3 properties makes no difference. Queen would not poop on me or any one of you. Queen is not my mother so I don’t give two hoots how the Queen’s English looks or sounds. Grammar Queen other posts not mine.
  14. Sorry m8 you are no lawyer or pm me your details. So far this solictor said she will do all the work for £300. Everything upto the point when we know which court, placing a notice on the property and first letter to the dimwit brother. most were saying over £1000. with your last response. you fully understand my story and you have no more "issues" with anything i wrote. now its time for solictors to work not you or i. infact, start praying. At least cross your toes or twist the earings you are wearing. she said 3 to 5 weeks for the full story to be verfied and conclusion. then she will request a meeting where we decide where to go from there. so i guess mid to late october. as its 28 days in october this year i guess towards the end.
  15. BazzaS, please ask your questions number them so i can answer them, something just told me you could be genuine helper.
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