thanks to everyone, your help is much appreciated.

Erika, i have drafted a letter, can i pm it to you please.

many thanks

there was a change, see pm

thank you

thankyou

Lots of thank you's to everyone, I am very grateful for your help.

I also called back again and explained (once more), and this time the voice must've passed it on.

yes please, if you don't mind. ive just sent a couple of pm's to you but don't know if your facility is open, & if you've received them. thankyou

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I'm not being deliberately close, i'm wary i guess

i will, and thank you so much

that's good, thanks

can i send a private message to you please, i hope you don't mind thank you

I told them before. I had called previously

I'm so frightened, I don't know how I can say that what I told them before, is in fact wrong, without implicating myself in to a really bad situation. I really do want to do this, as I said, it's making me feel ill. I have NEVER done anything wrong before, and I will never do anything again. I feel ashamed of myself, and wish I hadn't done it. If i could turn the clock back, I would, truly. The worst part of this is that it's impacting on my children, and I will never forgive myself for this, I am a useless mother, they don't deserve this. I'm suffering from depression, and have been feeling very anxious for a while, about anything and everything. I realise that this isn't an awful lot of money, but it's money I doubt that I should've had, so it's wrong, whatever the amount. I'm trying to hang on to the future and getting through this, wishing my life away i guess, in six months time i'll feel more settled may be. Sorry for the rant everyone, feeling desperate right now.

thank you the amount is between £350 to £380, and I have given them some information a couple of weeks ago , and i thought once they knew this, it would mean that i'm not entitled to it. But the lady said that it was ok. I have read the rules and it's not ok. What shall i do? I have tried to put things right without implicating myself to the point of self destruction. I don't want to get myself in to extra trouble by saying something that might bring uneccessary trouble for me. But I don't want to leave things as they are, because I feel terrible about it. I would need to say that what I said before was not correct to sort it out properly, and I don't know how to do this. I can't stop crying- i'm so worried that i'll be in a lot of trouble. What do you think will happen to me when I tell them? I know that it's my own fault, all i want to do is to put things right. Do you think it would be better to write instead of calling. thanks

Hello I've been claiming a benefit that I'm not sure I am entitled to. I have tried to sort it out and haven't been able to. I have been paid some money, it's not an awful lot, but I feel terrible about it, and want to sort it out before it goes on any longer. I'm giving no excuses, I know that what I've done is wrong and I want to put it right as soon as I can. Can anyone advise me how I should put this right, I really want to, I would do it now if i could, I'm scared of what will happen to me. It's making me feel ill, I truly want to do the right thing as I say, but I don't know how to do it. I could stop the claim now i know, but that won't cover the time/money that I have had, and I really want to pay it all back. If anyone can offer any advice I would be very grateful thanks