its all so very worrying, we are going through the same thing, keep you hopes up and get whatever advice you can, my daughter has helped me out as i was suffering with depression and was homeless, now she is being IUC, i'm not sure what will come of al of this, but we can only hope it isn't too severe a penalty. this forum is fantastic, and I have benefitted from reading the threads, of course it can make you worry more, but no point being hidden from the reality of what's to come.