Hello Sorry to bother anyone but I was told about you from a man i know. My mum is elderly and lives with my sister. She bought and paid for her house over 20 years ago. My sister lived with her, my sister wanted to move so my mum used the money from her house to buy her a car and put the rest as deposit on a house, my mum said its only money she doesnt need it. My sister did not put my mums name on the house. My mum is now needing 24 hour care but my sister says she can only look after her at weekends even though she lives there. This means me and my brothers and other sister have to take it in turns to look after her, we are in our 60s except for one brother. One of my brothers has grandchildren he has to take care of before and after school. My other sister is not too good she is on tablets for her nerves. My sister who lives with my mum is now trying to get more money for attendance allowance. She works from 9 till 5 but leaves the house at 8 and doesnt come back till 9 at night, she said she has things to do. We dont want mum to go into a home as she loves her house, we feel blackmailed. My sister wont go part time or take a break from work, she earns a good salary, which I know is a good thing as jobs are hard to come by. She sometimes goes away at weekends and we are so tired. I have teenage children who can be difficult at times and am worn out. Thank you for any advise.