Will await ur reply 2c what happened with u x think i was made worse by speaking to a friend who actually commiting benefit fraud, and shetold me aboutherfriend who was too commiting it n she was like they must have loads of evidence against u etc etc so panicked me more x Good luck!!!!

Im def going to speak to solicitor today, i certainly wont say anything i dont have a reasonable and definate answer to, im soscared of getting into more trouble! I have to gotho, cos its the not knowing that is making me feel so so ill, im writing this and i have slept 2 hours in 2 days and drank a mouthful of oj and sips of water (i only did this to take medication) i kno i need to eat but i physically cant, im overweight anyway so this wont hurt to much lol. Im not going to admit to any guilt, because we genuinely dont live together, im just worried about the school situation and the fact that i dont supply gas to my house and very little electricity on meter, i just dont need it, im not there in daytime (hardly) and at night, the twins fall asleep on way home, pop them in cot n they sleep all night, then other kids and i go to bed and we sleep and when we wake again its light outside so can c fine, so basically im worried that having no electricity supplied at times, due to bankruptcy i can prove i have no spare money, that its looks as tho i dont live there, or if they followed me, maybe on times i stayed with my bf, half term week for example and various weekends and midweek stays if my leg was bad or various factors. Im just thinking worst case i think. They sent iuc 4 days after i went into housing as they had suspended my money as i didnt cash 5 cheques (no bank acc, didnt realise i could do it in there office) so went in, cashed 2 i had, then requested rest get sent to landlord to clear rent arrears. All my hb goes to letting agent, i donttouch it, if i apply for tax credits as a couple, i would receive approx same amount as single as bf on lower wage, so i have nothing to gain from keeping thtis house except its my home! Please let me kno how u get on jadeybags, mines tomorro! Arghhhhhh

What classes them as a partner then? We don't live together, have no financial ties to each other, we just care about each other (even if it has been up/down, on/off over past 2 years cos as I said I have an anxiety disorder n become depressed) he has shown he will still love me after all of that, plus help me when leg broke, support me emotionally through bankruptcy, I felt like now (or 1st April) to start our life together living as man n wife without any benefits. My interview is Friday, no1 coming as of yet, have solicitor calling me bk Tomorro

We're not living together tho I have sometimes spent more time there, due to various circumstances, my ankle pain, him seeing children, I take them to visit him... That's how rough the area is I live! But I don't live there, it took me a long time to decide that. No I don't use his address for anything (except school) and he would never use mine! Nothing Else tho. My bankruptcy only went through last week in feb tho, so literally day later I handed my notice in, so we could live together! U think I'm in trouble then??

I've got to visit them. They have always been aware I have a bf. I've never financially gained from him :/ he has brought a few bits for twins but not much really. I've always been to proud, n have scouted carboots to make sure they wore decent clothing, we have never lived together therefore my circumstances haven't changed. They were happy with me to stay there when I broke my leg for a few months?! I am so scared :/ I only happily informed them (hb and compliance officer at jobcentre) that I was finally moving in with partner and they wished me best of luck and seemed happy. I'm wondering whether it's just cos red flags been raised cos I've missed few appointments in past, didn't cash housing cheques (due to no bank Acc due to bankruptcy) and altho I've now told them now looking to move n come out of system, they're just checking this. Is this possible? Am I being deluded?? Omg I feel constantly sick n my heart feels so heavy

I really hope sum1 can help me, as I haven't eaten for days through sheer panic, I Hav an anxiety disorder and just font kno what to do I received a letter from council to Hav my answer some questions in investigation against me for change of circumstances. I met my bf 2 years ago and very quickly got pregnant... With twins! I already have 3 kids so now have 5. Anyway, due to being a tough pregnancy I did sometimes stay with him more in this period, then again after csection. During this time I changed my childrens schools to ones in his area, I put his address on forms as I thought, I will move ther anyway! I stayed at home but hardly ever was home, is a really rough council area (my house is private) some nights etc, but I hardly ever put any gas or electric on as I was only really ther at night, to sleep, so didn't need lights on really, didn't own any massive appliances etc so just basically survived on next to nothing. Then last august (I had been seeing bf for about 18m by then) I broke my ankle and leg, had to Hav it operated, pinned etc so let authorities know that I was staying with bf until healed, which took me upto December. In december we talked about getting Xmas out of the way then moving in together. There a few issues tho, I had huge debt and had to make myself bankrupt 1st, so did this in feb, 2 days later I handed in my notice to letting agent, and told housing about it n wrote a declaration thing saying I wouldn't be in receipt of any benefits from 1st April. I was really excited to finally look forward to my new life, no more benefits, no more avoiding the awful area I lived in, and staying out at unsociable times just to Hav some 'family time with bf' and now I've got a letter from hb saying they're investigating me for 'change of circumstances' , I'm Sooooooooooo scared!!!!! I Hav an anxiety disorder, Hav had history of suicide attempt and my ex had made me and our 3 kids homeless before, hence the reluctance to move in with partner properly. I'm so very frightened:/ please give me some advice! Am I stuffed? I can't eat, sleep can barely function n just feel like dying:( arghhh