The police are involved because it is domestic violence. I know when he is arrested and charged with the things he has done to me he is going to be telling police anything n everything to discredit me. I am a victim of DV and it was horrific what i went through. He has already said he is going to report me for not declaring to my council that he was living with me for 9 months, he will also report me to the tax office too. So i have no choice but to be honest and upfront about everything. This is the only thing i have really done wrong. Just concerned what the repurcussions will be when it comes out.

i have just escaped a very abusive relationship, i now have the police involved and will be pursuing charges against my ex partner. I lived in fear for the majority of the time i was with him. I had 2 police escorts prior to him getting back in my life but he held things over me which i had not done and terrified me with what may happen. i do however have to be honest as i allowed him to stay with me for approximatley 9 months, 36 weeks. Of which he was not working, when he did he did not pay me anything apart from one payment of 900 pounds. We have a baby and i was working. I was claiming housing benefit, child tax credit and working tax credits for this whole period. if he had not lived with me this figure was all correct for my circumstances. I am going to be honest to the police and admit where i was wrong, i know this was wrong but i did what i had to do to survive. What is likely to happen to me and my children, it scares me. I need to be really free from this man to protect my child myself and anyother woman on this earth. But i know there are going to be consequences to my actions. Can anyone advise me........thankyou in advance