it doesn't concern me what others do, im not a snoop, some people dont pay car tax again not my business

The best thing to do with internet stalkers is IGNORE them, let them rant on and on because no one listens block em every where you can dont read what they write very simple, and easy to do, they will go crawl back under their stone then, its feeding them they like its attention seeking, these people are very sad and have a mental problem, best to ignore them cut them off

i couldnt report anyone for that, but there are many who do and enjoy watching the misery it causes, its not my business full stop

we really did, all my children together with their families & partners, couldnt wish for anything else

i had a housefull of my family, many laughes, and some great memories for us all, what a wonderful life i have

Hi Frankieg, ive not been to the ombusman and wont because once you have taken that route then theres no going back and the case is closed, the hospital have tried to make me take that route but i wont be moved as you have said 900 complaints and only 22 investigated so where did all the complaints go then in the bin i suppose

think beachbird might be right on this one i also saw this

if they have no insurance as well its a new law

Sploshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Cheers me hearty

thats brilliant thank you for that tip katapigeon8-)8-)

Manukka honey is good for loads of things so maybe the hair as well wonder if its messy though:jaw:

Desperate Dnaniel cant send you a private message as again your box is full LOL what you like

hey desperate daniella i cant send you a message as your box is full thanks

OK thanks

i have very curly hair and use straighteners will try that one thank you sillygirl:-D

i have brass handles on all my doors thankyou for that tip i'll be busy now

Thank you nystagmite thats exactly what we think should have happened not left him to die, they never tweeked his machines and yet his nurse that day just stayed by her white board ignoring the beeps, my daughter has a very disabled little girl and spend many weeks in hospital with her so she understand all the machines shes very medically minded as she has to do TPN and IV for her little girl, and she was shocked that they stayed away and just left us, is this what happens when a relative is dieing do they actaully stay away and leave them to die surely they help our loved ones till the end not ignore them im disgusted by it, thank you again

Thank you both for your reply's, i have spoken to so many people in the trusts and not one will do anything about it its hopeless, there is no protection for patients anymore i have found that out and its wrong, so the trusts can do what they like cover up all their mess ups and no one does nothing, and im not the only one who is having problems with trusts, the DNAR was put on my son at 8 am that day we were told at midday so we were never consulted about this, but who cares? no one listens to the families anymore we don't count, my son didn't know this was going on he was heavily sedated paralised by drugs and ventilated, he knew nothing,, its only now we have got his notes back that we can see it all, their failure to move him to ITU when they were asked 5 times to move him to be ventilated they didn't, do it, he also had swineflu which they don't swab for so that's why his lungs were failing, and the day the dnar was put on him all staff stayed away from him even when the machines were all bleeping they didn't even come and tweak them they were told basically let him die, but he didnt he was stronger than they realised he shocked them all, if they new he was dieing is this what they do to people who are dieing just leave them, what about the pain he was having, they shouldnt play god to people, he wasnt treated for swineflu either, and we were never gowned either so we must have passed this on to others in the hospital, and we visited the childrens ward as well because my sick grandaughter was in the same hospital at that time , im not giving up im letting them know im still here, untill they tell me the truth i will keep this going, solicitors dont want to know either unless its a massive claim its just about money to solicitors not what trusts do to people no one is interested what goes on in the trusts anymore they control it all its a closed shop so be careful if you have to go in hospital and take notes of every thing they do to you because you never know.

hi good to see you again desperate danielle, yes we got the doctors notes at last, and i was shocked to read them, i can now see what they did wrong, it was in the CDU ward clinicla descisions ward where they left him for 4 days while his lungs got into a bd way they asked ITU 4 times to move my son to ITU buut they all ignored this and he did have swineflu and they didnt treat him for this and thats why his lungs failed, by the time they did get him to ITU he was dieing, so ITU put him in prone for 17 hours, to ease his lungs which i know they can do, but after 17 hours laying on his face they turned him on his back and saw this huge heamatoma over his left eye and cut lips from the vent tape, it was all to late for my son, they neglected him, they also put a DNAR on him with out our knowledge and in the notes this doctor also said he was going to take his care down, but the other doctor disagreed with this thank goodness he did, its all written in his notes but who will listen? NO ONE, the chief executive believes hes answered all my questions but he hasnt how could he know anything when hes just a damn accountant how could he even understand what happened to a patient in his hospital i mean and accountant that was his job before coming chief exec of the trust, and there is no higher than him even my MP is having trouble getting answers from him, there is no help pals do nothing litigation are with the trust they all colaborate together i have emailed every one to do with hospitals trusts and not one will help none will go against the NHS it was the biggest mistake to let them become trusts because they are the top dogs and you cannot get past them

you will never get the truth from these trusts they run the hospitals themselves now, no one watches what they do anymore no one cares basically i have emailed about every one connected to the NHS trusts and not one person has helped me, its a closed shop, they can get away with MURDER and cover it up by taking things out of our notes to cover their backsides, maybe it will be a good thing if it does go private it will stop all this altogether people have had enough now the lies just fallout of the chief executives mouth, they back one another up, even when a nurse shouted at my son in ITU nothing was done to her, im sick to the teeth with the NHS and the trusts now to many chiefs and not enough indians in the NHS now ive now seen what they do to people and no one can stop it, many will lose their jobs with the cuts and i wont stand up for them , did they stand up for me??

Hi Hector i thought someone said it held all info about you, not sure if thats right, id like to do a SAR, just to see what they do have on me, and maybe one on my son, after reading his notes i think we really do need to see his notes more than mine,how long does it take for them to come does anyone know?

do we have to pay for Subject Access Request SAR this is information all hospitals keep about us thats what i want to get hold of then i can see just what they do say about patients, i have my sons notes now and its full of lies, why do they write things about us when we never said it, i think this is all wrong, my MP will be seeing this, and i have now seen the DNAR request form, and that doctor did say he wanted to withdraw my sons treatment, yet another doctor dissagreed with the withdrawing and got him on ecmoo where he got over his illness and is alive, this is disgraceful how can just one doctor put a DNAR on a patient and yet there was other treatments for my son,its like your going to die and your going to live because i said so now they are trusts there is no one higher than them so we as patients have no protection now no wonder they wanted to becaome trsusts so they have no one to answer to anymore and they can do what they want to us its all wrong

thanks again hightail i will be watching very closely now its wrong isnt it to do that dont you think?

Thankyou Hightail, i was wondering that been watching for a while at prices thought it was me wishing again they do actually put down things during the week then up them at the weekend, ive seen it with food as well but thanks again will now watch it and buy