hi had a compliance officer out beg of ths year to see me,, someone phoned anonmously and said partner was living with me.. i do have a partner but he lives iwth his parents, he comes over few days a week and helps me out with kids as i have a mental health problem and cant go places on my own. i explained all this to this officer, and all she said was get in touch with me within 4 weeks and i think you need to speak to partner about living together.. surely they cant make us live together.. she also said the dss could class us as being a couple and my benefits can stop.. i feel as if im under pressure to ask boyfriend to move in.. but we;'re not ready for the commitment... what exactly do these compliance officers do.. i was totally truthful with her aobut everything.. she asked me lots of questions of money etc... i work off my own money and he works off his... surely they cant stop my benefits coz i have a boyfriend... please help as the 4 weeks is up very soon... She said also that the dss could make me claim back all the money, for the time we've been together.. im soo worried about all of this... i didnt think you had to tell the dss even thou you have a boyfriend even thou he doesnt live with you.. please help loopy