hi, from what you say he is just hyper which will eventually calm down, there is nothing in his behaviour that says he has serious problems, just see it as he has bounced into this world and is happy to be here,at such a tender age he still has a lot of growing to do and he is still learning:) i know at times he is probably exhausting but as every mum on here will tell you its no easy job but well worth it, we have all at times sat and cried over our kids for one reason or another be it worry or pride but the main thing is do what you feel is right, you are his mum, doctors, health visitors will be able to give you advice but at the end of the day you know him best, watch and see if certain foods seem to make him more hyper, or if its certain situations sometimes excessive energy can be nervous energy, is there a pattern to his behaviour around certain people, also think about the way you dicipline and praise him and how he reacts to it, but most importantly you as well as your son are learning, dont be to hard on yourself when it doesnt go to plan, you care and love him, for him thats all he needs:D

hi, my husband had to stop work because of an ongoing health problem and was awarded incapacity benifit as he was being treated by the hospital and having physio the doctor gave him sick notes which he gave to dwp. after 6 months he had a medical which consisted of a 5min interview and the outcome was he was deemed fit to work, my problem is the doctors and hospital are saying he s not fit to work and the medical examiner is saying he did not have enough points to qualify for i.b, my husband is now on job seekers but unable to attend interviews what is the right course of action to take:? thanks:)

hi, if you go to your local dwp with all the infomation on this debt and tell them what you are expected to pay 9 times out of 10 they will pay the debt for you via a crisis loan,because to pay such large amounts will obviously make it difficut for you to live ,this they will take back on a weekly basis at an affordale rate:)

hi, i should be able to help you here, just some questions first if you dont mind so i can get a clearer picture of his personality, behaviour traits, i used to work with kids with special needs and behaviour problems so would love to help, i am also a mum of 6 and understand how difficult this is for you, how are your sons social skills, is he happy to interact and share toys with others? does he understand the difference between right and wrong or does this concept seem to confuse him? is he happier alone or with other children? what are his worst phobias or behaviours, what have you noticed about his behaviour that makes you feel concerned, and does he have extremes of behaviour i.e extremely loving or aggressive, and finally has he ever had a head injury or allergies to anything sorry if this all is bit of a headache but this is all important so as to have an insight to how your son is progressing and helping you with some answers:D

hi, you can cancel anytime you want but you do need to take into account what you will live on:)

thanks lefty you have helped save me from £2000 of debt with brighthouse:) keep up the good work

thanks scott:) if nobody minds thought i would join to see if i could help in some way, hopefully give someone some moral support and put a smile back on some faces

well done this is a great site:D its great to see there are still some good people out there giving great advice