Good afternoon,   I'm looking for some help. I haven't eaten or slept in 2 days.   I had a letter through the post for an interview for that next day but obviously I was so shaken I called to change it which is now for Monday.    I have been utterly and completely stupid and up to my eyes of 20k of debt as well which I just buried my head in the sand...until now. My eyes have been completely open.   I got married very quickly into a relationship