Hi All,   First of all thank you for reading my post. I am terribly stressed at what happened recently and am on the brink of a meltdown.   I am employed in a high profile role, with a professional qualification that has taken me many years to achieve. My spouse is unemployed, and has a student TFL Oyster card. I used their card to travel as I felt that having paid for it fully and being their spouse I could use it.    I was stopped yesterday early morning by a TFL