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Hi, first of all like everyone that gets caught, I’m very very ashamed of myself but glad I got caught. Let me just explain as quickly as I can, not wanting sympathy or anything like that.

 

2019 I got diagnosed with breast cancer (that’s when it started) I for some reason started stealing things of little value to give to the charity  Brest cancer research. This has continued until I released I needed help. I’m showing all the symptoms of  Kleptomania but too ashamed to get help. I also suffer with Crohn's disease.

 

I went to B and Q to get a few items, then I had the urge to steal things I didn’t need. To cut a long story short, I got caught and escorted to a little room. I told the security guards I needed the toilet as I have Crohn's disease, he just ignored me and told me to sit down, I constantly told him I really needed to toilet and showed him my medical card but just got ignored


I can’t remember everything he said because the inevitable happened (i soiled myself) I just remember him saying I would get a fine from CRS for £218 because the items I hadn’t paid for came to £31. 
 

As a Crohn’s sufferer I’m used to accidents but so upset this happened when it could have been avoided but that’s not my concern. I’m now worried about the fine, I have little income and don’t know how I’m going to pay it. I can’t sleep for worrying, I darn’t leave the house, but I know I’ve brought this on myself so I deserve everything I get. 

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Welcome to the forum. I'm going to move this thread to another part of this website where there are other people who have posted questions involving shoplifting.

If you read around our responses there, you will find that we are not judgemental but we do try to give advice – including the fact that you should go and see your GP about this and tell them everything.

Not only will you get help but you will probably feel much better that you shared this with someone. Also if you have somebody close to you/that you trust – it would be a good idea to share it with them as well. I'm sure there will be initial humiliation – but afterwards you will feel much better about and about yourself.

It sounds to me as if you had pretty harsh treatment from B&Q and we can help you to make a complaint about that but I expect that you'd rather not. I think you would probably be right.

Presumably the items which you took were either returned in perfect condition or else they were paid for.

Either way, you don't need to worry about paying a so-called "fine". What you are being threatened with is a letter from some kind of firm which tries to make money on the back of people in your kind of difficult situation which instead of making life easier, simply makes life more difficult.

If you get a letter from some company demanding money then come here because we are used to handling them. By and large though you should ignore them.

You say that you deserve everything you get. – I think you obviously deserve a bit of remorse and a bit of reflection – but other than that you are probably beating yourself up unnecessarily. You should certainly leave the house. There's no point in staying in – and you will get over it that certainly use this opportunity while you are energised about it to go and talk to people – your GP.

Come back here if you get any more communications from anybody about this.

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Thank you for your reply, I’m ringing my GP on Monday. 
No items were damaged and no loss to B and Q.
I’m just so ashamed of the accident I had I felt so degraded when I asked for help. 

I feel so much better for sharing this and I’m so happy to make a donation. You have made me feel a lot better and I thank you for that x

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I'm pleased that you feel supported. You are.

Please don't worry about a donation. We haven't done anything for you.

Just make sure that you go and talk to people as quickly as possible and tell them everything that happened. I'm sure that you will feel really good about it.

Make sure that you get back here if you get any letters from the Bounty Hunters

 

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forget it ever happened, there is nothing anyone can do to you

should you get any scary letters from the likes of RLP you BIN THEM.

 

go see you GP and get your life sorted.

please don't hit Quote...just type we know what we said earlier..

DCA's view debtors as suckers, marks and mugs

NO DCA has ANY legal powers whatsoever on ANY debt no matter what it's Type

and they

are NOT and can NEVER  be BAILIFFS. even if a debt has been to court..

If everyone stopped blindly paying DCA's Tomorrow, their industry would collapse overnight... 

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Oh dear - You have got yourself in a pickle havent you. 

CRS are Civil Recovery Solutions if I remember rightly of Post Code NG8. (B&Qs chosen partner)

Noto be confused with Credit Resource Solutions of Post Code HX3.

 

I'm pretty sure that you can ignore the "Fine" they send. Personally even if you didnt - I wouldn't be giving them details on an unsecure site. ;)

 

 

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And as for someone who has been where you are (Without the shoplifting part :) ) I can assure you arranging some time with your GP via Video Conferencing is the right thing to do :)

 

 

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you 1000% ignore them

it is not a fine and NEVER EVER can be. 

its to line their own pockets to fund the harassment of other poor soles with the same medical and emotional issues as you

 

the security guard that used that work knows he is lying and would have had training at being told NOT ever to call it a fine. oh and as far as i know with CRS he gets a backhander too!

please don't hit Quote...just type we know what we said earlier..

DCA's view debtors as suckers, marks and mugs

NO DCA has ANY legal powers whatsoever on ANY debt no matter what it's Type

and they

are NOT and can NEVER  be BAILIFFS. even if a debt has been to court..

If everyone stopped blindly paying DCA's Tomorrow, their industry would collapse overnight... 

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doesn't matter what figure it is 

it's fake and they have absolutely zero legal powers to do anything

 

just like any DCA on any consumer debt - they are NOT bailiffs.

they are totally powerless.

 

 

please don't hit Quote...just type we know what we said earlier..

DCA's view debtors as suckers, marks and mugs

NO DCA has ANY legal powers whatsoever on ANY debt no matter what it's Type

and they

are NOT and can NEVER  be BAILIFFS. even if a debt has been to court..

If everyone stopped blindly paying DCA's Tomorrow, their industry would collapse overnight... 

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A threat of bailiffs is an empty threat. There would have to be a court judgement first.

Once again, don't worry about it. Put it behind you – but go and talk to someone

 

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23 minutes ago, Lucile said:

DX thank you, he said if I didn’t pay the FINE, then they will send bailiffs, obviously trying to scare me x

 

all total BS because he wants his backhander from CRS..

pers i'd be complaining to the CEO of B&Q about what you were told as its totally totally all LIES!! to extort money out of people and i bet he doesn't know it's going on.

 

ps i'd even go as so far as requesting the rooms cctv footage by sar and nailing this ****** of a security guard.

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please don't hit Quote...just type we know what we said earlier..

DCA's view debtors as suckers, marks and mugs

NO DCA has ANY legal powers whatsoever on ANY debt no matter what it's Type

and they

are NOT and can NEVER  be BAILIFFS. even if a debt has been to court..

If everyone stopped blindly paying DCA's Tomorrow, their industry would collapse overnight... 

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Hi Lucile,

 

Crohn's experience in the family so I get just how humiliating this was for you. Unforfgiveable and totally taking advantage of your lack of knowledge and your vulnerability.

 

If you wanted, you could take on B&Q and the security guard to get the justice you deserve, but ..........

 

.......... I'm sure you would be happier letting it fall into the background, then disappear.

 

Let us know if you get any further threat/demand but please be assured they can do nothing at all to fine you, or affect you in any other way.

 

Get the help and support you need, and we're always here if you need.

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