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    • Mother and father worked here and then went to SA in about 1978 returning to UK in about 1996 and worked here until 2016 when her husband died at age 66.  He was still working at the time.  She then went to live with daughter in SA.  Mother only claims for her pension. 
    • Thanks, I owe the money, no issue with that, I will SAR the company.  If I need to just pay it and have the CCJ for a few years so be it.  Just thought I'd explore all options
    • By the way you wrote that post, i can see that you are as confused by the situation as someone reading it. Important advice must be not to pay for any flights etc, until they understand the situation fully. Those that have British passports could be entitled to receive UK benefits. However, nothing is that straightforward. The passport does guarantee anything. The daughter could be entitled to Universal Credit ( which includes housing) as a British passport holder, but this can only be confirmed when she has gone through the Habitual Residency test (HRT). So you will need to read about HRT for British passport holders returning to the UK. There will be requirements to provide information about why they are returning to the UK and what work searches have they done to find work on their return to the UK. In regard to the mother who has a British passport, you will be correct in presuming that no council is going to be helpful in paying for the care home fees immediately on arrival in the UK. When did the mother last live in the UK ? When did the mother last work in the UK ? British embassy in South Africa may be able to provide information and assist with applications ? Just getting on a plane, landing in the UK and expecting help to resolve their situation, would be a silly thing to do. I can see the mother ending up in an NHS hospital for a period, while people wondered how they were going to deal with the situation. Probably not the first to do this, but if the mother also has a South African passport, they could put her on a plane back to SA and then the Daughter would be a difficult situation. Embassy in South Africa must be first place of advice.
    • There are online forums for people moving from South Africa to the UK. This is one of them.   https://moveup.co.za/2019/03/08/how-to-move-to-the-uk-a-step-by-step-guide/   If you want to speak to a social worker you could try the local council.   HB
    • This is not our issue, but an issue with a friend.  Our friend is living in South Africa and now suffers from dementia and is in a home.  The daughter has been paying for the home however the daughter was made redundant and has a child to support.  Daughter's husband keeps kicking her out of the house with the 3 year old boy and daughter had nowhere to go. The mother and daughter both have British passports.  Mother and father(now deceased) are British born, but daughter was born in South Africa.   The 3 year old was born in in South Africa.  Daughter is now broke and cannot keep the mother in a home any longer.  Daughter wants to return to the UK where she did live for several years previously so had NI number etc. however not sure what she can do with her mother.  The other issue is that the father is trying to get custody of the child so another issue. We, on behalf of the daughter who phoned us this morning, want to discuss with a social worker the options if any that may be open as on arrival here the mother will need to go straight into a home.  We can offer the daughter and child temporary accommodation with us.  Who should we contact? A very complicated scenario that normally we would not involved ourselves with as we are in our late sixties, retired and not that much money in the bank. 
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Refusal of cheque when card machine down

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We stopped for lunch with friends in a country pub in the middle of nowhere yesterday.

As we tucked into the main course the waiter appeared and said they could not take card payments as their machine was down.

 

We didn't have enough cash on us to fully cover the bill and it was roughly five miles from the nearest ATM.

I mentioned a cheque and the waiter didn't say anything.

 

 

The bill arrived and the bar staff and then the Manager refuse to accept the cheque which was already signed and completed.

It was being handed to them and they refused to take it as a solution to a problem not of our making.

 

Instead they asked me to leave my card details and security number on a sheet behind the bar.

I refused having had a card cloned in a restaurant previously.

 

Then they asked me to leave name/address details and they would phone for the card details, which we did.

On reflection I am not minded to give my details over the phone to a company which would suggest we leave the card info on a list by the till,

who knows how the information will be disposed of?

 

So, when we get home and they ring for payment can I insist on sending them a cheque?

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If anyone can confirm what I can legally do in these circumstances that would be very helpful. Thanks.

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I worked for a company that refused cheques for a while. I had to have cheques put in my name and pay them into my account to get over this for a customer who would only pay by cheque. Legally they do not have to accept a cheque.

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When dining out I always ask do you accept card payments and is your system working. If they say no I leave. If it fails whilst you are dining not a lot they can do.

 

False security in using debit cards is not a good thing. You knew you were eating out and could have had enough cash to cover the meal. This would have solved the issue.

 

Cheques have been on the way out for years. A lot of places don't accept them anymore...


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Send the cheque and call that it. It's their look out after that.You have been seen as trying. Send it recorded.


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When they call, you could always ask them for their bank details so you can send the money direct to their account using internet banking.

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good idea!


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