Daughters employment problems NHS

[meg&mog]

Bill

 

Thanks so much for your reply I am going to sit and read it and reply to any questions you have thanks again

 

Emmzi

 

Where are you getting that we are expecting next weds meeting to be anything more than I stated? We KNOW it's not a meeting to discuss anything about the situation

Thanks

[billathome65]

The meeting will be next week as I read it. It is another hearing "or it's not" they don't need to have a meeting to say it's going to a hearing they could just send a letter advising on when a hearing was taking place. It's all long winded in the NHS if you ask me :)

 

Meg&mog took the time to respond to some questions, so it's only polite to highlight glaring areas as a rep I would be advising and suggesting a member on if it does go further. Lets hope it doesn't but what's the harm in throwing some ideas in the mix just in case, what other things may meg&mog be addressing?

 

Chers Bill

[meg&mog]

Hi Bill

 

Just to clarify I'm sorry if I have confused you my daughter was told verbally on 18th December that she is being taken to diciplinary she has recieved no letter stating this and no date has been set for the hearing the matron has just verbally told her it is going to diciplinary the weekly meetings my daughter has been having with her ward sister were designed to see how she was getting on to make her feel she was still a member of the team

 

Since being told it is going to diciplinary the meetings once a week will now be with the matron not the ward sister and the first one is scheduled for a week today I hope that clears things up

 

As soon as we have a date for the actual hearing I will update I can not tell you how much I appreciate your help

 

Thank you

[billathome65]

Ahhhhhh my bad. As it is going to disciplinary hope the observations above help.

 

Regards Bill

[Emmzzi]

 

Emmzi

 

Where are you getting that we are expecting next weds meeting to be anything more than I stated? We KNOW it's not a meeting to discuss anything about the situation

Thanks

 

I get it but thanks for the implication that I'm a bit thick, always welcome!

 

I think there is a chance everything will be dropped. Even if not, you don't know the case to be answered so going over every option in minute detail seems overkill.

 

As not having the hearing date and purpose is causing frustration that's the only thing I'd be trying to sort now; all else is a distraction.

 

You don't have to agree with me, but it doesn't make me stupid to have a different view to you.

 

I hope you manage to have a calm Xmas tomorrow.

 

Em

[meg&mog]

Hi Em

 

Thanks again for the rather angry post.

 

I at no time implied you were thick nor would I however your sarcasm is also always welcome

 

As I said this has been dragging on for a long time and we have no choice but to think and to plan for every eventuality this is what my post is designed to do

 

This is not a difference of opinion here the facts are the facts and I will state them whether you believe our actions are overkill or not

 

Thanks again and a merry Xmas to you too.

[meg&mog]

Ahhhhhh my bad. As it is going to disciplinary hope the observations above help.

 

Regards Bill

 

 

Thank you Bill they helped very much and if you don't mind I will keep you updated

 

Merry Xmas

[meg&mog]

Hi

 

Just a quick non update really

 

Still ongoing with this still no date for diciplinary still no official letter recieved to state it is going to diciplinary my daughter has recieved the notes that were taken at the investigation meeting on 3.11.14

 

However they bare no reflection on what was said we are not sure who took the notes there was 4 people present and they were both asking questions and answering questions to my daughter and her Union rep her Union rep is not listed on the "people present" but at the end of page 1 he asks a questions and this is recorded with his initials

 

All still very sloppy not being handled properly daughter still off the ward

 

I will update further soon as anything happens thanks guys

[meg&mog]

Hi guys

 

Bit of a update on this case too

 

My daughter finally recieved a letter yesterday (13.2.15) saying it is going to diciplinary the letter is dated 28.1.15 postmarked 11.2.15

 

They have dropped one allegation the one about "just fake them up" with regards to patient obs so that's good her Union rep was glad that one was gone

 

The letter goes on about how the trust between them and my daughter has been broken and a lot of other emotional blackmail kind of stuff reads very much like she's done it her Union rep says "let's get the other 2 batted out I don't think you have much to worry about" so that's hopeful

 

With regards to the paitent complaint I don't know whether I have already stated this but we know this patient sadly passed away end of November last year so not to sound harsh but where else can they go with this really?

 

The other allegation you may remember is with regards to things she was supposed to have done in July that wasn't bought to her attention till oct her Union rep doesn't think it's much to worry about because she did speak to her ward sister about her being told my daughter was calling her behind her back my daughter recieved a letter about that there was nothing in that letter with regards to swearing in front of patients or talking derogatory about them which she has since been accused of and her ward sister claims she spoke to her about of course untrue

 

She doesn't have the letter she recieved during that time anymore but she does have a friend who read it and has said she will be a witness to what it said I have told her to request a copy as they told her it would stay on file

 

But convoluted I know but has been rumbling along so long remember the girl that changed her statement? She has been discussing the case on the ward with other people so my daughter has put in a formal grievance

 

So much going on and I would worry a whole lot more without all of your help thanks to each and every one of you let me know what you think

 

Thanks guys

[Emmzzi]

that does sound hopeful. fingers crossed!