I raise a glass to..............CHRISTMAS GARDEN OF REMEMBERANCE

[snowdragon]

we have Alisha's anniversary also Burly, Feb 13th

 

15/12/2005 ~ ~ 13/2/2006 forever in our hearts, Alisha Marie and Burly's wife

[cassie2006]

Thanks All.

 

Mark's Birthday on 2nd February.

 

I'll raise a glass on that day for him and all our Angels who have left us.

 

I always said Mark had the voice of an Angel. He used to sing in the church choir years ago and never lost his beautiful voice, so.......

 

Sing loud now Mark with all the Angels. I am absolutely bereft. xxxxxxxxxxx

[snowdragon]

Cassie, not sure if this is for you but we have got Alisha on a site called Gonetoosoon, it is free but you can be a sposor if you want, you can put on as many pictures, tribute you want and light candles

Happy Birthday Mark for the 2nd

 

Burly, they only think there is one side to the story, o/h has been told far as the daughters are concerned then my o/h is dead

[burlyb]

Cassie, not sure if this is for you but we have got Alisha on a site called Gonetoosoon, it is free but you can be a sposor if you want, you can put on as many pictures, tribute you want and light candles

Happy Birthday Mark for the 2nd

 

Burly, they only think there is one side to the story, o/h has been told far as the daughters are concerned then my o/h is dead

 

mate thats my birthday 13th feb too and Sue was cremated the day before on the 12th ....the wig makers phoned about 20 mins before the hears came to ask what colour hair she was due to Sue was going through Chemo and the hospital didnt tell the wig maker she'd died almost three weeks before......it's 14 years on the 25 th of jan That Sue died and that was just weeks after a consultant told her 'we can give you some good years yet'....same lying bast who'd told her twin sister simular 3.5 years before....they are only there for the saleries most of them

[LaughingGirl]

I'm sorry to hear of your loss, Cassie. My thoughts are with you and your family. x

[cassie2006]

Cassie, not sure if this is for you but we have got Alisha on a site called Gonetoosoon, it is free but you can be a sposor if you want, you can put on as many pictures, tribute you want and light candles

Happy Birthday Mark for the 2nd

 

Burly, they only think there is one side to the story, o/h has been told far as the daughters are concerned then my o/h is dead

 

Thank you. I will have a look at Gonetoosoon. xxxxx

[snowdragon]

http://www.gonetoosoon.org/

[burlyb]

to my late wife it was at 5.55 on this day 14 years ago cancer took har away from us

remembering............25-1-1999 with deep sadness the day you had to leave us.

No day has passed when we have not thought of you, your happy smile your caring ways, your cup of tea as always.

Thinking of others before yourself, our life together was our wealth, Still hard to believe that you have gone, Our darling Sue so brave so strong.

Above all else your total love for our two young son's and life itself now gone.

Those who met you will never forget you, you were unique one of a kind.

Our remembrance comes from those who loved you most, now left behind

[cassie2006]

Thinking of you Burlyb.

I don't know how we can get through these special days when EVERY day is almost unbearable.

 

Cassie xx

[snowdragon]

thinking of you and your boys Burly, every day is awful but more so these Angel days

[burlyb]

Thinking of you Burlyb.

I don't know how we can get through these special days when EVERY day is almost unbearable.

 

Cassie xx

 

I am moved on in the main from it Cassie but theres times like today when it floods back and with all the memories its so hard .....today is going to be a very grey day

 

xx

[LaughingGirl]

Bless you Burls, my thoughts are with you and your boys.

[burlyb]

Bless you Burls, my thoughts are with you and your boys.

 

 

thank you too L/G x

[caro]

So sorry to hear about your son Cassie. There can't be anything worse than losing a child.

 

My dad died on 13th February 1972. My brothers died in 1984 and 1986. It was bad enough for me but I never knew how my Mum coped with losing her children. I can't begin to imagine. She had a very strong faith which she always said kept her going.

[cassie2006]

Thanks Caro.

 

This is a bad week. I should have gone back to work over a week ago but I've had to take A/L. It's my birthday on Thursday (31st)

and Mark's is on Saturday (2nd Feb). The year he was born my birthday was on a Thursday and he was born on

the following Saturday. I feel like we've gone a full circle.

 

I've gone through the first Christmas without him (though I didn't know much about it as he was only buried on 12th Dec).

 

How do I get through this week. I'm brokenhearted

[caro]

A friend was telling me about someone whose baby died at 9 days and referred to her as an angel on loan. Celebrate that you had Mark for a while and remember the good times on Saturday.

 

When my brothers died I felt I owed it to them to live my life as well as I could because they didn't have the chance.

 

Just take things a day at a time. Now and again something good will happen and you'll be able to smile.

 

Life won't ever be the same again but you will learn to deal with it.

 

If you aren't up to going back to work go and see your doctor.

[cassie2006]

Unortunately, although Mark only left me 9 weeks ago I've been off work since the end of August looking after him on a Dr.s certificate. If I don't go back next Monday I will go onto half pay, which, as you can imagine, is not possible with bills etc.

[snowdragon]

I know how you feel Cassie, it is coming up to my grand-daughters Angel day and it gets worse each year, she was 8 weeks old when she passed and I keep thinking of all the things I have missed, so to you, your son and Alisha I send my love and prayers,

Sandy. o/h of bobcat xx

[cassie2006]

Thank You. I really appreciate it when I know there is someone who can empathise with me.

 

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

Love to you and I feel your bereavement xx

[snowdragon]

I saw you memorial on Gonetoosoon as well and lit Mark a candle

XX

[cassie2006]

I saw you memorial on Gonetoosoon as well and lit Mark a candle

XX

 

Thank You. I'm in such a bad place right now I really appreciate your understanding. Bless You. Liz xx

[snowdragon]

Remembering o/h's grand-daughter, Alisha Marie. 15/12/2005 ~ ~ 13/2/2006

Little Miss Sunshine you will be forever in our hearts xxxx

[burlyb]

bless her little sweetie too tiny and too young to have gone. Keep your chin up both of you

 

Peter

 

my 59th birthday today and it was the 14th aniversary of my wifes cremation yesterday so i'll never forget either date

[snowdragon]

Happy Birthday m8, thinking of you and your boys

[snowdragon]

Thinking of Alisha, 7 years ago on Feb 23rd we laid you to rest xx

 

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ If love could have saved you, then you would never have left xxxx Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ