csa query

[jim 20]

HI, ive been paying child support for my son and daughter for 10yrs now, my son is 16 and daughter 15, recently my daughter moved in with me and is at school i have paid privately without csa, but soon as i asked for £5 a week off my ex wife for my daughter she went up in arms and decided to go through the csa, my son is 400 miles away, and i travel 264 miles per week to work, ive heard of variations, so i need advice, if she can be funny so can i, ive paid all those years, all the travel costs to see them in that time,no help from my ex and i ask for a fiver as she is on some benefits or other..how tight!

[jacob18]

I think your wife may say that , as you have a kid each , that would be fair to her. If you then end up with your son , when he reaches 16 then YOU go through csa and get the money from her , she will have to pay it aswell , will be easier too with her being on benefits ! Good luck i hate people to try to dodge csa , in my case i have had years of it.

[jim 20]

She has to pay now jacob, ive done everything by the book never missed payments, always compromised when she has demanded more. ive read horror stories about the csa and she always ued that as a sort of blackmail, iam a parent with care, she is a parent with care, does she have more rights bieng a woman...i dont think so, they all slag men off for not paying, well here is an example of a woman not wanting to pay and i think personally on the whole if it were mainly women who were the absent parents they would be worse than the men!

[jdes26]

Here here,,,,,,,, the csa are ****

[jacob18]

I agree , my x hasnt ever paid for his kids , even when one died , he has had 15 addresses in two years ! MEN and WOMEN who are care givers should be treated equally, but it usually always falls to the women being on the end of this argument. They are good for nothing, and the fathers that do stay put and lead a productive life always get it stuck up them ! because of the fathers or mothers that dont pay, or like my x WONT

[jacob18]

Hey you could be right , the dads who pay without fail etc and productive parents are the ones who always pay for the unproductive ones i'm afraid. I wish you well.

[jim 20]

Well ive put my payslips in now and the csa want more than i can afford...that means im struggling to put fuel in the car to go to work..im packing the job in bugger it, she wasnt happy with what i was paying, shes even depraved her own daughter, unfortunately if you work these days you are worse off than the lazy **** ex wives who dont like work, shes on benefit and can run a home..i work and cant meet the costs cos of the extra payments...hope your happy Ann youv just put your own daghter into poverty you should be proud and for the csa! how do they manage without their script! what a bunch of numpties not a brain between them, replace them with burger flippers from macdonalds and do the job properley!!

[Ell-enn]

You should make an appointment to see a solicitor on one of their free sessions, there might be something that can be done.

[tinkerbell_2k12]

The csa are useless ive had them chasing my son dad for 4 years to which theyve only just recently took a deduction.of earnings order out to which he then finished his job so he didnt have to.pay for him. You should hold your head up high that you have always been willing to pay for your children, at least ur kids know u care and will think highly of u as they grow older.

[jim 20]

Worst of all i pay my other sons mum a fixed sum every month..yes ive had 2 relationships.. by way of family arrangement i also help with clothes pay his xbox live etc, but the csa wont accept this therefore i have to pay 15% to my other ex, so in respect iam now paying more than 25% for 2 children, so now i have to put him through the csa to get it down to 20%, so thats another relationship going all clinical and by the book and on top of all this my daughter also my exs daughter by the way is feeling the tension from me, what kind of mother throws their daughter out to suit the new boyfriend, i rescue her off the street give her a stable home and then she wants more money to cover the shortfall now she only has one child to claim for..what a woman, a very self centered selfish woman who should hang her head in shame,..ive a good mind to hold off payments and go to court, represent myself and tell the judge whats been going on at least he or she might listen not like the csa. it really confuses the csa when the pwc is putting a claim in to another pwc, they dont know what to say when i asked ..are you concerned for the welfare of the child?..she replied yes..i replied back what about the welfare of our my daughter? also her daughter who is putting the claim in?..her reply...err erm..err....EXACTLY! like i said in my last post, they are lost without their script..bring on the burger flippers!

[jdes26]

I'm

In court sept 10th CSA are Tossers

I don't blame them

I blame my **** bag ex slag