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Hi there i wonder if anyone can offer any advice. We are currently in the process of trying to set up our own DMP. TO date i have made two token payments to MBNA (Virgin) for the last two months. The total on the card is @ £6000. We have written 2 times firstly outlining our difficulties and secondly with our income and expenditure - total debts and how we proposed paying them back. THey keep trying to phone and i don't pick up.... I have now had a letter today saying phone us or else. They have basiclly said that until i phone to discuss and settle on a payment plan 'acceptable to them' that they will continue to add interest and charges and the only way forward is to phone them.

 

SHould i call? I am really anxious that once on the phone they will try and corner me into agreeing to something i can't afford and it probably sounds a bit pathetic but just don't feel i have the strenght at the minute to deal with them..... AM i within my rights to say only in writing? or could that be perceived as me being difficult?

 

Would really appreciate any feedback or advice you could give me

 

Many Thanks

 

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Hi Neroli,

 

Well i can tell you that you have done the best thing by posting on this forum. I am very new to this and can only offer advise from my limited experiences......but there are so many knowledgeable people on here and loads of existing threads.....you are not fighting this alone!!

 

I have had similar experiences and decided (after reading many posts on here) not to talk on the phone so just ignored them. If you access your account on-line you could change your number maybe make one up!! But when I have dealt with them i have only done this via email as you have a record of what was sent.

 

Another valuable thing that I learn't on this site....Don't let them Bully you!!!!....when they send you letters....you think they are personal to you.....they are not....look round this site and you will see the same trash is sent to most of us. Nearly all seem to be computer generated "Threat-O-Grams" designed to get you to call them so that they can make you feel even worse....So No1 Rule...DON'T SPEAK TO THEM ON THE PHONE!

 

If you have access to a scanner then post (minus and personal or identifying information) and ask for some comments....as I said..load of good advise to be had on this site.

 

Good luck and I will watch you thread to see how you get on.

 

Barrowby

 

P.s a link to my MBNA thread is here if you want to have a look. http://www.consumeractiongroup.co.uk/forum/mbna/261009-mbna-so-where-do.html

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Personally, I think you are well with in your rights to require all correspondence to be in writing.

 

From reading these forums, it seems to be the most sensible way forward as most of us don't have the facilities to record the calls and therefore what the banks / credit card companies say.

 

It sounds like you're trying to be as fair with them as you can, it's only reasonable to expect the same from them. Be firm and don't be bullied.

 

S.

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Thank you for taking the time out to reply. Having had even more of a read round i'm definately not going to phone them up. We've decided to write saying you've got all the details you need and a fully comprehensive view of our situation you don't need any more details so can you please respond in writing to our repayment plan....

 

Thanks again

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Hi neroli,

 

A few of things you can do,

 

1) Send them the following letter, send it recorded, http://www.consumerforums.com/resources/templates-library/52-harassment/135--harassment-by-telephone-response-letter-

Copy the letter to Trading Standards - your local office,

so on the letter you write CC: Trading Standards, your local office.

 

2) If funds permit, buy a Truecall, it will allow you to block all their calls, and it will log time and date of all calls.

http://consumeractiongroup.co.uk/reviews/read-a-review/71-telephone-recorders-reviews/524-truecall-digital-telephone-recorder-

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Am back on this thread again not sure what next step should be we appear to have hit a stale mate.... I am still getting the 3 phonecalls daily which is just an irritation as i have caller display so don't pick up.

 

We have been in correspondance and the letters are puzzling - one minute acknowleding having had a letter then saying they haven'r received anything. They have all information i and e - full list of creditors etc etc but they still just keep writing that i need to phone. I have explained about wanting everything in writing over and over. Today i have had another letter and it is pretty heavy handed - if i CHOOSE to continue with this course of non payment legal action etc etc. I have been giving token payments.

 

So i really am at a loss what to do - all the other creditors seems to be quite amenable and we are getting there with agreements slowly but i just feel like i've hit a brick wall......

 

I'm guessing if it goes further all my letters offering payment and trying to get situation sorted should look good.

 

Really don't know what to do next - feel sick with it all :(

 

Hope someone can help me get over this wall with a bit of advice

Thanks

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