I have been studying these threads on Wescum for a few weeks now. I have been v shy about posting anything up in case I get things wrong. This is the exact same reason why I have not been interested in my wifes problems with these people and have taken a back seat, leaving her to sort things out herself. This is how it as always been. The Mrs. looks after everything. This was the easiest way because I was in the Navy for 24 years and I didn`t want to step on her toes when I used to come hom