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Please ,please Can Anyone Tell Me What I Can Do About The False Alligations My Wife Is Making Up About Criminal Damage... She Damages Her Own Car And Property And Rings The Police And Tells Them It Was Me... Do They Have The Right To Arrest Me ?

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Please ,please Can Anyone Tell Me What I Can Do About The False Alligations My Wife Is Making Up About Criminal Damage... She Damages Her Own Car And Property And Rings The Police And Tells Them It Was Me... Do They Have The Right To Arrest Me ?

 

Well if it was me, I'd go to the police myself to put them in the picture of what's really going on and make sure it's logged. You also need to start a diary (as previously advised)... to record your own evidence of harassment. You may then be able to look into getting a restraining order against her at some point.

 

The police will arrest you if a serious allegation has been made by someone else. However, if your wife continues with her pointless accusations... she may find herself on the receiving end of wasting police time. If there's no evidence that you've committed any criminal damage, then you have nothing to worry about apart from her behaviour being a complete pain the *rse.

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I have been to the police and told them what she is doing but they are not paying any attention... She took out an non-molestation order out on me in september... She has lied about everything... She is studying law at uni and knows how to play the system..... All i want is to have some contact with my daughters..... She doesn't want me to have anything to do with them...

She is damaging her property and shifting the blame on me.. She is doing this to show to caff cass that i am a monster...Please somebody help me !!

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Seems like its a complex issue - with your children involved its not as if you can just make sure you stay clear of her.

 

I would seek advice from someone qualified - im not sure if the CAB would deal with this... maybe someone on here has knowledge.

 

Your wife should know her law - she could get herself into bother if she carries on. Not good news if she wants to put that law degree to use!


Warning: Freemen of the Land Operate here. Think twice before accepting 'legal advice'.

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THANKS MIGHTY MOUSE... I NEED SOMEONE ON THIS FORUM TO ADVICE ME CONSTRUCTIVELY.. I am very suicidal... Please some help me ...

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1. If you are feeling down talk to someone who is there to listen - 08457 90 90 9

 

2. Your problem sounds very very complex and I think you need professional help. Forum advice can be useful but in some cases it can be dangerous and can harm more than help. I don't therefore feel I can advise - firstly because family law is not my thing. Secondly, because, even if it was, I don't think it would be in your interests for me to do so, not on the info given. this is not a case of a faulty laptop or something.

 

A good family law solicitor sounds like the first avenue to explore. Many will give you some initial advice for £50 or so. CAB might also be able to point you in the direction of some decent law centres or similar that might be able to help.

 

So, my advice, call the number given for emotional support, and then seek professional legal advice.

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I have been to the police and told them what she is doing but they are not paying any attention... She took out an non-molestation order out on me in september... She has lied about everything... She is studying law at uni and knows how to play the system..... All i want is to have some contact with my daughters..... She doesn't want me to have anything to do with them...

She is damaging her property and shifting the blame on me.. She is doing this to show to caff cass that i am a monster...Please somebody help me !!

 

It may seem as if the police are not paying any attention to you, but your visits should be logged; if not by them... then by yourself. It's time to start protecting yourself as best you can. On what grounds does she not want you to see your children? As advised, you really do need to have an interview with a family law solicitor over this...

 

Anyone can accuse anyone of causing damage to things, but if that damage can't be substantiated, then they're wasting their time. If your wife carries on like this, she'll do herself no favours in the long run, especially if you have a diary that backs up the kind of behaviour she's dishing out to you.

 

This situation is unlikely to just go away.... She's playing a game with you. Unless you protect your own interests, she'll continue to have the upper hand.

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MY wife has naw threatened me that she is going to bruse her self and tell the police that it was me... Can anyone help me please , please for god sake!!

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To be blunt, we can't.

 

The advice so far is about as clear as we can be. See a professional.

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The only other alternative is to tape calls from her and secretly record any meetings. Easy done with a mobile phone nowadays. Then if she denies she said such a thing, gotcha......apart from that as said you need profesional advice as to her behaviour.

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MY wife has naw threatened me that she is going to bruse her self and tell the police that it was me... Can anyone help me please , please for god sake!!

 

 

We are trying to help you, but you don't appear to be taking any notice.

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Dear Friends,

 

I am so hurt and scared that i have emotionaly broke down.... She goner cause me to commit suicide... I am realy hurt....

I am so grateful that you people on this forum have adviced and taken the time to write to me, i am truely honoured...God bless you all

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Dear Friends,

 

I am so hurt and scared that i have emotionaly broke down.... She goner cause me to commit suicide... I am realy hurt....

I am so grateful that you people on this forum have adviced and taken the time to write to me, i am truely honoured...God bless you all

 

It's really hard to try and support someone without being able to reach out to them. This situation seems to have been going on for a while, but is now spiralling out of control because you are doing nothing! Go to the police. Go to your GP. Get some visits on record so that reports can be referred to about what you've said and your state of mind. Your wife is bullying you. This is a form of domestic abuse and if the situation was the other way around, this thread would be filled with horror. The situation you describe is no less horrific though....

 

You have to get some strength and focus from somewhere.... Do you have any support around you at the moment in the form of relatives, friends, etc?

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Whatever anyone has done or will do to you is never a justification to commit suicide. Take a few steps back, which is hard, but you have to for your children sake and your own.

 

The advise given here is good, keep a diary, and when you lodge reports to the police ask for a copy and/or confirmation of it. Keep a dairy of all she claims you done and try to be around other people who could vouch for you in case she makes another false allegation. They can be witnesses to your innocence. You need to have a long breathe but she will eventually lose this, as it gets more and more evident she is making things up to cause you harm. In the end she is the one that might lose custody over your children.

 

Stay calm, keep company with your family and friends, do not isolate yourself, it will wear you down. Try putting your thoughts down on paper or an anonymous blog, so it is out of your system. You can also call the Samaritans.

 

Whatever you do, suicide is not a way out, just think of your kids, family and friends, do you really want to leave them behind like this? Nothing is worth giving up on life.

 

Wish you all the best and let us know how things go.

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Please don't give up Rantz.... please talk on here if it helps. I was with a violent bully for years before finding the strength to move forward.... so can really appreciate how low it can make a person feel about themselves.

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It's really hard to try and support someone without being able to reach out to them. This situation seems to have been going on for a while, but is now spiralling out of control because you are doing nothing! Go to the police. Go to your GP. Get some visits on record so that reports can be referred to about what you've said and your state of mind. Your wife is bullying you. This is a form of domestic abuse and if the situation was the other way around, this thread would be filled with horror. The situation you describe is no less horrific though....

 

You have to get some strength and focus from somewhere.... Do you have any support around you at the moment in the form of relatives, friends, etc?

 

I have no support... My family are not around me they live in other places..

My mother past away in 2000... i have no body

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Well you have friends you can talk to here now:)

 

I would think about visiting the doctor and telling him/her how much stress you are under.

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