What Made You Want To Swear Today?

[Nystagmite]

Really regretting giving someone my number and agreeing to going for coffee on Saturday. Between 8 last night and 9 this morning, he left 2 voicemails.

 

I really don't have the guts to tell him to get lost. He seems to think that because I study Law, I can somehow help him with his mental health issues and some stuff with the police. I have my own issues to sort out.

 

He still won't leave me alone. He sent me a text today basically making me guilty about his mental health issues. I was out earlier and he turned up and wouldn't leave me alone.

 

Someone has told me I should be friends with him. Can't think of any good reason why. Surely, if you're friends with someone, you must both get something from the friendship? I get nothing from this.

[burlyb]

he isnt getting the picture Nyst you'll have to be cruel to be kind 'to yourself' and for gods sake have someone with you when you tell him to leave you alone 'or else'

[ajax95]

jobhunting

[burlyb]

reading that vodafone was allowed a bid on the new g4 networks and won their spot when they owe billions in unpaid taxes................stinks of something to me

[snowdragon]

getting a letter about the bedroom tax we have to pay

[burlyb]

gutted for you both mate and especially when we know Glegg is going to be beaten down on the mansion tax ...................roll on the revolution and UKIP comming to power

[Nystagmite]

How painful it is when I caught my toe on my jeans this morning. Part of my toenail is coming off and it bloody hurt.

[Horsen]

Still suffering from the bloody lurgy, sore throat and headaches. Then the other half gets a bloody cob on when I don't go into great detail about asking what kind of day she has had!!!!!!!

[Guest]

flytippers. do they not give a ****e? (obviously not). idiots. if knew who it was, would pick it up and dump it back in their drive/yard.

Edited February 20, 2013 by Ford

[LaughingGirl]

Making two cups of tea this morning, pouring the milk in and watching it instantly curdle. I'm guessing if I hadn't woken up with a stinking head cold, I would have realised earlier that my insomniac OH had decided during the night to descale the kettle with vinegar.

[Sparks_]

Getting brown envelope from DWP!!!!!!! Then seeing its just a benifit update....wow getting an extra £2.15 a week from April, what will I do with all that money?

[Nystagmite]

Getting brown envelope from DWP!!!!!!! Then seeing its just a benifit update....wow getting an extra £2.15 a week from April, what will I do with all that money?

 

Don't spend it all at once!

[Sparks_]

Normally I am a mostly calm sort of person but today I wish to rant swear and try not to hit out! Today i found out that a friend of mine has been beaten up by her husband! She is black and blue and now homeless as he is the only person on the rental contract thingy! He is refusing to let her see or get her pets, refusing to let her have anything from the house and has threatened if she goes near the house he will kill all her pets

I wish I lived nearer so I can help out, all I can do is be there when/if she needs to chat.

Tell you one thing....karma you have a target go get him!

[Desperate Daniella]

That is absolutely dreadful. Presumably he has to leave the house at some time. If he hasn't changed the locks she should enter the house when he is away, and she must have a strong burly chap or two with her. I think as threats of violence have been made the police might help her. It will depend on how sympathetic her local police are, but she should contact the domestic violence team immediately. They will be discreet. She must never, ever go near the house on her own. A girl I knew was murdered by her ex when she returned for a hairdryer.

[Sparks_]

She doesnt want to live in the house ever again, looks like she has got a little house that she can move into on friday and a charity has organised basic furniture for her, when sorted she is going with friends to get her pets and other stuff, this fella was so controlling he tried to make her believe he had a life threatening illness to stop her going to see her family! The things that are coming out are undescribable grrr I want to go round there and do some damage to him...look what he has done now made me lose my temper he will pay!

[Desperate Daniella]

Thank God she is away from him. I hope she gets her pets back soon. She must be worried sick about them.

[sillygirl1]

Thank goodness she is away from the animal.

 

Hopefully he won't carry his threat out, but she should contact the RSPCA about that and they should be able to help, and maybe have him arrested at the same time.

[Sparks_]

She is, whats worse she runs a rescue for this type of animal, the RSPCA is checking on them frequently

[LaughingGirl]

I'm really, really sorry to hear about what's happened to your friend. Rather than go there with a group of friends, I would suggest she contacts the Police and asks them to accompany her to collect her pets and belongings - she can still take her friends if she wants to. They did this for a very close friend of mine who was in the same position in the past. If she goes with the Police, there's far less chance of comeback further down the line (I've known ex-partners accuse the person leaving of theft and criminal damage in the past), and there's also far less chance of the situation escalating and somebody being hurt.

[Desperate Daniella]

I do think it would be better to go with the police too, but I am concerned that if he sees the police, or if he hears they turned up at the property when he was out, he may harm the animals out of spite. The lady in question is out and safe, thank God, so I'm really concerned about the poor pets.

[assisted blonde]

The Police will accompany you in a case like this, go and ask them

[Sparks_]

Will need her friends as there are over 20 animals to be removed, I think the rspca will help as well as they work with the rescue

Edited February 26, 2013 by Sparks_
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[Nystagmite]

I do think it would be better to go with the police too, but I am concerned that if he sees the police, or if he hears they turned up at the property when he was out, he may harm the animals out of spite. The lady in question is out and safe, thank God, so I'm really concerned about the poor pets.

 

They might be able to go in plain clothes and not their uniform?

[Nystagmite]

There's a meet up next Saturday for the moderation team of a forum I help mod. It's in London, which is 3-4 hours away. I was told they won't pay hotel costs and that I can just go home. Er, can I? I won't get home until gone midnight and would have to leave mine around 9am.

[ifhthsbdw]

There's a meet up next Saturday for the moderation team of a forum I help mod. It's in London, which is 3-4 hours away. I was told they won't pay hotel costs and that I can just go home. Er, can I? I won't get home until gone midnight and would have to leave mine around 9am.

 

Don't go. Simple.