pleaseeeee help me! i cant find information anywhere! its a bit of a life story to get the points down but please help me im so desperate!!! basically when i was 15-16 i was out with my older step sister and her mum we were in a shop and she decided to put some 99p conditioner in a hair dye box i know i was stupid but i just went along with her i regret it now, the police were called and we had to pay an £80 and fingerprints were took at the shop. and all my friends at school were starting to be the 'bad crowd' as a result i made sure i never did anything illegal again. i still hung around with them at school but i made new friends who werent into drugs and drink etc. however i had stopped speaking to a girl who was a friend because she had started seeing my best friends boyfriend behind her back (childish girls we were) and as a result she had spread rumours about me.... my old 'bad crowd' friends heard these and decided to stick up for me, knowing none were true. they rang her up one day calling her names and she rang the police and told them it was me. this was a lie i knew nothing of the event and police came to my house and questionned me i offered them my phone to prove my innocence and they dropped it and said another girl had admitted to it... the next day at school my headteacher pulled me into ihis office where he went mad at me saying he knew how i planned to happyslap this girl (once again this had been made up) and she had told him personal details (like i had lost my virginity to my boyfriend and details which frankly had nothing to do with either of them) just to be a bitch he then said he was considering expelling me. i rang my mum up crying as soon as i got out, she came straight away and went into his office where he told her the board of governors (who were this girls parents best friends) had told him in no uncertain terms he had to deal with me. my mum took me to the police station to make a complaint. we sat down with two officers and they said that this girls uncle was their superintendant and they had been told to investigate the matter fully with me as this apparently nasty threatening girl. all of it was lies and my mum demanded something be sorted. they said it would be dropped but told us off the record not to take it further as we wouldnt win due to her familys status. as a result every dinner time at school i stayed inside, most of the students in our year hated her because i was very popular and had lots of friends simply through being a nice person. and many felt guilty as they had made the phonecall that started it. i was determined not to let this get me down i passed all me exams extremely well and got a new boyfriend life was amzing.... until 2 and a half years later i found out my boyfriend (who was 4 years older) had begun to take cocaine with his friends as you can imagine i offered him an ultimatum me or the drugs. he said me he began to work to stay off them until his friends decided they liked him better on drugs, one night i had met him to say it was over where he followed me home shouting etc then he pushed me and grabbed his tshirt to stop me from falling which ripped his shirt. someone called the polcie and they stopped us and asked if everything was alright and why his shirt was ripped he asked me to not say anything as he didnt want to be arressted so i said we had jsut had an argument and basically took the blame. nothing happened we were just taken home. this was a wake up call and he promised me drugs were gone... i found out a few months later he was still strongly addicted and i told him i couldnt be with him. he hit me and assaulted me. after this i became very scared of him and what he would do but being a silly girl i was still madly in love with him however i wanted him off the drugs. one night i was out with my friends and i saw him out and i got really mad because he looked off it. i said something nasty to him and walke dout of the club, he followed. in the street we were walking off until he grabbed me and pulled me because i had had a drink i fell over but he dragged me whilst i was on the floor. i stood up and hit him with my handbag to get off me, a police man came over and arrested me. i was put in the cells all night whilst he went home. the next morning i had my photo and fingerprints taken and i was interviewed for assualt. i said thats not what had happened but i didnt want him to get in trouble i explaine dhe pulled me and i hit him back.(for the first time) he stopped the interview and i then broke down and cried how it wasnt fair, hes beaten me to im black and i hit him back once and got arrested. he then got a councillor in to me and it felt good to talk to them i opened up about the assualts he had done.... the police then said they were dropping all charges no caution nothing and that they were pressing charges agaisnt my bf instead due to a new law they didnt need me to do anything. they launcehed a new investigation etc he was arrested and a court date was set hoever i didnt want him to go to court. i begged them to drop the charges and they wouldnt but one officer said if i made a retraction statement then they would say i had lied. i did that instead. this was when i was 18. i am 20 currently and i study law at university and i want to go into a legal position however i am scared some of these will be on a crb check... the sad thing is i have worked my life trying to stop abuse and bullying being a victim of it and it doesnt seem fair that after all this i cant be allowed a job i want. pleaseeeeee help me!!! will any of this be disclosed on a crb check? an advanced one?