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  1. thankyou you have made me feel 100 times better this evening , i have actually ate some proper dinner. what is a SARS ?
  2. i won't be entitled to any benefits so will have to pay it off monthly. what are they like with payments? are they likely to do any form of investigation or will offer payment plan straight away
  3. i might wait to see if they send me a final tax reward with what i owe for the last month i claimed , then maybe ring them and tell them the date is wrong? i want to pay it back and wake up with no worry i am just scared that it will go the other way and i will go to court and prison
  4. my problem is is that i told a lie on my move in date . so i don't even know if they will look in to it . i know these things always catch up in the end i just on constant edge as to when .
  5. i'm new to this and really worried sick so please no haters:( have come here as everywhere else's i have looked has made me feel more worse than what i already was with the horror stories and nasty comments. so long story short , i have been claiming as a single parent for 2 years and 9 months when in fact i moved in with my partner and my name is on the agreement. we were only together 4 months when i fell pregnant with twins . towards the end of my pregnancy my elder daughter was struggling to get along with my new partner , it caused a lot of arguments so we went back home . in the mean time added the twins to my claim . when the twins were a couple of months old and then we agreed to give our relationship another go. since then we have been living together. twins were born early feb 2019. in nov just gone 2020 i got one of those standard letters about is my claim right and i came to the realisation that i didn't change over. so from then o have been ill with stress and being pregnant i didn't want to change it as i didn't want any added stress to my already stressful pregnancy. i had my son 2 weeks ago and straight after i logged online and put my changes through , relationship and change of address. i put my change of address as the week before as i didn't know what to do. it said my claim has ended but have not heard anything yet. i will owe about 15000 all together if they realise what i have done. i know i have been stupid and it's no excuse but with covid, being constantly on lockdown , i totally forgot. now all i can think of is going to prison and leaving my family . i don't know what i am expecting in the post but i just can't eat, sleep , i have a new born and 2 year old twins that i can't mentally look after as my head won't allow me to think of anything else. any advice please .
  6. is there any update on this please .
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