Thank you all for your advice. I think you are right, it is best to just call the lovely lady that came to see us, tell her about the silliness that was that day we actually had a row, tell her what happenned and that this was one of those stupid situations that just got a little too heated and the police came to see us to shut us both up from shouting basically! I will give them a call tomorrow and tell them how worried I have been about this, and hopefully they will be able to tell me that I have done the right thing in telling them, and that honesty is the best policy. Im sure you are all right, thanks for the advice, will keep you posted.

Hello there, I am new here and apologise in advance if I have put this in the wrong section! My husband and I have been thinking for a long time about fostering. We finally looked into it all and had a home visit today, which seemed to go very well indeed. Both my husband and I are law-abiding people, and neither of us have ever had so much as a parking ticket, let alone any criminal convictions. The social worker that came to see us spoke about an Enhanced CRB check, so we have been looking on line for information about it. It would appear that it means that the social workers will be asking the local police force about ANYTHING that may be relevant to us fostering. Totally understandable, but we are slightly worried. Just about a year ago, we (hubby and I) had a bit of a domestic which got a bit heated and there was shouting. The police came and spoke to us and calmed us down, and then left. A few days later I got a call from the local authority asking were we ok, as the police lady had contacted them becuase I have a daughter (13, who wasnt even in the house at the time) I explained to the local authority lady that this was just an argument that got over heated, everyone over reacted, and that we were all totally fine. I never heard anything else. We are just really worried now that the police records will show that they came to our house to deal with a "Domestic" which was basically nothing more than a heated argument between my husband and I (Which, I may add, is one of only TWO arguments we have EVER had - seriously we never have a cross word, as hard as that is to believe, it is true.) and that the foster people will be upset with that and not allow us to foster becuase of it. We both are professional people, I am an accountant, a councillor, a school governor etc, hubby is retired from the forces, so as I said, we are both good people, who had a lousy day and a bit of an argument that got out of hand and police came to shut us both up! Nothing has happenned since. Can anyone give us some advice on this as I am worried. Many Thanks