Sidewinder, Thanks for your prompt reply, I would have thought resigning looks better than being sacked, although he will be able to claim unemployment benefit immediately upon completion of his notice period. I was always under the impression that references could either be slightly positive or neutral but not negative, that's my experience over the years (not personal experience but anecdotal) either way it will not help him if future employers go for references, which again in my experience seems not to be the norm nowadays, I know my own employer ( a very large retailer/distributor) doesn't pursue them unless it involves handling money or security positions. You are correct he has been given 4 weeks notice which as I stated I think is because of staff shortages/holidays at the moment, he has been offered the right to appeal which as you and I know is normally a complete waste of time, no senior manager is going to undermine his subordinate and leave them with egg on their face, they close ranks as usual. I still feel as do many of his colleagues including his own manager it was too severe a punishment considering he has an exemplary record (no lateness, no sickness, performs well in his job, this was told to me by his direct manager) I was also told the manager who sacked him is very unpopular (detested actually) and has a reputation for overkill in similar situations, might explain why his branch has the highest turnover of staff in the group. He did take a colleague in with him as an independent witness, who when asked did state that he felt the punishment was excessive. Again the general feedback from other staff is that the manager handled it very unprofessionally (shouting at him and allowing the situation to be leaked to members of staff who were not involved) Yes he was given advance notice of the hearing on Tuesday afternoon and dismissed Wednesday afternoon. He was given written grounds for dismissal. He has no grounds for unfair dismissal as he has only 6 months of employment with them. I feel his fate was sealed from the moment he failed to communicate his intentions regarding the training course. Even intervention by his own manager made no difference to the outcome. Although my son was wrong for what he did it seems to me the dimissing manager is a mean spirited, nasty piece of work with no sense of forgiveness. ( I can't print the descriptions given by other employees!!)

Hi to everyone, This my first post on CAG. Sorry for the longish story below I just want to outline the case for clarity. I need some advice regarding acceptance of a resignation letter, my son was placed on disciplinary action for failing to complete a 2 day training course provided by his employer, he went to the first day of the course and found that it was covering everything he already does, so instead of riding the course out and just playing the game he told the instructor that he felt it was pointless and he very stupidly decided to leave the course on the morning of the second day, obviously the instructor notified my sons employer, instead of contacting his manager he failed to phone anybody and inform them of his intentions and eventually turned up at home around midday. I then received a phone call from his workplace asking if he was there under the guise that they were concerned as to his whereabouts (they already had an idea of his foolish game I think), I said I hadn't seen him and that I would try and contact him, I then told him to get to work pronto and apologise for his idiocy. It all went downhill from there and he was placed on disciplinary procedure, he was interviewed by a so called 'senior manager' ( I use that term loosely!) and my son said he was made to feel as though he was lower than vermin, ranting about letting down the company image (it was a basic product training course he was not appearing on national television!), failure to communicate, unauthorised absence etc...anyway he apologised profusely, put his hands up and told them it would never happen again ( he has no previous disciplinaries against him) this was not good enough and after being shouted out the matter was left till later in the day when a decision would be made. His own department manager told him he felt they were being overzealous and a written or possibly a final written and payment towards the course out of his own pocket, would have been enough of a punishment, however,the situation turned darker and hints were coming through he would be dismissed for gross misconduct ( not a very professional company when everyone else knows whats going on before you do, no confidentiality whatsoever)....he decided with advice from his manager and other colleagues it would be better to resign before being dismissed to retain some dignity and give him a better chance to gain alternative employment, he served his notice with the required 4 week period to the 'senior manager' in front of 2 witnesses in the afternoon and was told about 2-3 hours later they were not accepting it and he was being dismissed with 4 weeks notice. (this appears to suit them because they are short staffed due to holidays and sickness) They also want him pay towards the course and running costs of the hire vehicle he used to get there. My question is, can they refuse to accept his resignation? And can they force him to pay towards the course and vehicle costs? (although it does seem to appear in his contract about reclaiming costs). Thanks in anticipation