Hi, this is the first time I have posted anything so if I mess up please bear with me.
A few weeks ago a letter addressed to my eldest son was delivered to my house, he does not live here and has not done so since 2003 and I couldn't pass it on to him as we have not seen or spoken to each other for almost 6 years, so I just wrote on this letter "not living at this address, please return to sender" popped it back in the post box and thought no more of it until another letter arrived on 18th June, again addressed to my son but not sealed, I noticed it had the same return address as the previous letter, I might add I have had a few letters, phone calls, and even debt collectors calling in person a couple of times over the years, so I decided to read the letter, with the intent of letting the senders know the situation. It was from Andrew Bartle of Lowell Financial regarding debt with Capital One, saying they had sent previous letters (only one) and as my son had failed to enter into a repayment plan they may instruct an agent to visit to discuss repayment, they said if he didn't make contact within the next five days their agent would contact him to arrange a visit, I obviously don't want the worry of all this so I wrote to them stating that he does not live here, that we are not in contact and even giving them the last address I had for him I also told them that as I had now informed them in writing that he doesn't live here, I did not want any more letters sent here regarding this as I will consider taking action against them for harassment, to be honest I don't know if that was the right thing to say or not, a friend advised me to say it and it sounded good at the time, although I don't have a clue how to go about anything like that and I hadn't discovered this forum at that point. I sent my letter recorded delivery and on checking track and trace found it had been signed for on 22nd June, so I thought that would be the end of it, stupidly, I now realise after having read so many posts on this forum. On 2nd July another letter addressed to my son arrived with the same return address on the envelope, marked private and confidential yet unsealed again, I didn't bother to read it at first, I just thought I have told them the situation, they can't do anything to me, I'll just ignore them. Can I just say at this point I have a younger son who still lives at home, both my sons obviously have the same surname and even unfortunately have the same initial of their first names, so tonight about 8.00pm my phone rang I answered and a male voice said "is Mr ***** there"(he didn't actually say an initial) so I handed the phone to younger son, he said hello and male voice says "is that Mr *****", younger son says yes and with that the phone went dead, did 1471 but it was a withheld number, now I feel sick with worry, I am thinking it's Lowells agent ringing to check my son is here before paying a visit do you think I may be right, I keep trying to tell myself to relax they can't do anything to me but I can't stop fretting, what happens if these agents call, does anyone know. Please can anyone advise me as to what to do to try and stop this once and for all, I would be very grateful for any help.