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  1. So you think that I need this therapy treatment, strange path for you to go down and suggest that I need to control how I feel.
  2. Not a small company the company is huge. Forgive my ignorance what is a CBT?
  3. I did follow the advice only for it to fall on death ears, when I am told do you want to keep your job, tends to make me listen and shut up. Just ranting, did say no one can help But thanks for the advice
  4. Hi all I have posted a previous post about an issue I had at work. Due to a medical problem I have at the moment I have been told that my duties now need to people to do. Which is great for me in the respect of my injury. The problem I have now is the company are putting me with the person who has verbally attacked me as in my last post. This man has also had the pleasure of calling me to tell me that I was not to work on my own. Which I knew nothing of the management decision until I got the call from this person. I have been told if I do not work with the man that attacke
  5. Thanks for that, life is hard, but when you have some one at work saying to tuff to the death of my husband it really hits home. But really thanks for the support in that. One statement I said in the meeting is why are some people hell bent on hurting for no reason.guess what no reply, I think I expect to much to the so called friends at work
  6. Well really need the time off, you are right to compose myself, some one said to me today that after the death of my husband I did not have enough time to me. So maybe some time off will do me good and let me see a lot clearer as to what to do next. But I think that whole meeting is well out of order and that is what is bothering me more that this man at the moment. Ten minutes before the meeting I was told by the manager that I represented the company to such a high standard and that they cannot thank me enough, and that I had a true passion as the day I started. (this was a huge manage
  7. Resign you must be joking. I have so many years invested in this company and an excellent pension. Resigning is out of the question.
  8. Well I went for the meeting but 24 hours before that the manager said it was a mediation and nothing to worry about, hence why I walked in there alone. Only to be told to say sorry to him and look him in the eye while I do it. Because I hesitated for about ten seconds, the manager said if I do not say sorry then she will be forced to start a disciplinary against me, but she does not want to do that. I cannot believe what has happened today, this man has verbally abused me and I have been told to say sorry, she said if we become friends then all well and done but if we contact each other o
  9. I have blocked him from my private phone, but we both have work phones. Believe me they will not listen to me, he is a model employee in front of them, other staff are scared to speak up, then tell me how they have had run ins with him, but i am the only one that has went further with this. All I wanted was for him to keep his opinions to himself in the future. But he is taking this further like a baby saying that I am not talking to him, wonder why I am not talking to him. Well I think that there really is no answer to my question, so will attend the meeting on wednesday and se
  10. I was told by HR to say sorry to him, I have refused to do this. I have done nothing wrong. So I cannot understand why this is going on. Believe me I am creating more trouble, opening a can of worms I was told if I go higher, so it is out of the question.
  11. I told them about his medication, only because of the way he attacked me on the phone, I said maybe that is why he is like this. The manager said he will ask him. Then when I spoke to the manager again he said it is best he does not ask him. I just looked and thought what the hell, we both drive company vehicles with other people in. But really they do not believe me. I am at my wits end with this man. I just cannot believe that I have to sit in this room, I just know that one of the questions will be: Why do you feel frightened? I cannot believe that I am going to have to
  12. Thanks to anyone that can help and give me some advice. I have had a problem with another worker, o ne day he called me at work and said that I was unprofessional and not a team player, unbalanced and that I had some problems. we had an argument on the phone, he said that I had changed and was not the same person he once knew, (my husband died 11 months ago). I said of course I have changed and this is my new life and I am struggling to get through it. Tuff he said get on with it. This really shocked me coming from him, as we have worked together for the past 7 years si
  13. Hi all, I hope some one can help me. I have informed a line manager of "malpractice within the work place". Nothing has been done at all about this. And it is still going on. Meanwhile for all of my whistle blowing i have found myself being investigated. My line manager has over the past 5 years has tried to intimate me by ways of bullying and taking work away from me and giving to other staff. Asks me inappropriate questions in supervision. and when i mention that she has not put these questions on my notes she denies saying it. Some days she totally ignores me and other
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