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About Englishnicholas

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  1. Hey guys, Thanks for the good wishes. To be honest, I know they have over charged me, I know i can probably get some back, But i just dont want to deal with them ever again, It was my own fault i got into this mess, So i guess there is a certain amount of karma due there, So im going to write it down to bad luck. I true as i stand here today, i wont ever let this happen again, I was also appalled by their behaviour, so im debating whether to send the letter about how they acted so it doesnt happen to anyone else. Nick
  2. Im so so sorry i havent posted for ages, I was first ill with tonsilitus then internet was down, and argh just a mess. Well i have some good news.... Equita have been paid, in full. So they are now off my back which is great. Sadly my ex is a lost cause, some things have happened of late that have shown me theres no hope, sad, but i guess thats how it has to be. I just wanted to say thankyou for all your help, you were a light in the dark when i needed you and you lifted my stress immensely. I will still be on here, so feel free to post, Would be cool to help others wi
  3. Hes actualyl by law my Husband, We had a civil partnership and are effectively 'married'. Im glad it doesnt phase you, normally im very very open, i always have been, just when i got the homophobia form the other site i thought it may be easier to do things this way. Trust me, he wouldnt look on this thread, if he didhe wouldnt read it, hes a difficult guy indeed. If the choice were mine he'd still be with me, sadly its not my choice. Anyways, today is sunday, and im classing it as my day off, so i will do whats needed tomorrow, I wish you all a great day and speak tomorrow. Ni
  4. Just read that letter, It's pretty darn cool, Will send that first thing monday, and email it. Thanks again Rae x
  5. Damn i didnt see page 2, will read this tomorrow morning, far too tired now. And yes im a night owl, night is far better than day On another note, Mollycat i appreciate you are having problems too, But im having HUGE problems, and would be really cool if you started your own thread as i did instead of doing it on mine, good luck.
  6. Thanks Rae, You're kind, I live by that same policy. I have a long a complicated past, but in short after the horrible death of my parents(they were hit head on by a drunk driver and killed instantly) I lost everything, i was 17, and my whole life disappeared, i didnt know how to deal with it so i turned to drugs, i got addicted, ended up homeless etc, I was a heroin addict for 4 years. I was 9 years clean last week infact, and that brief episode in my life opened my eyes to a lot, and from that my policy has always been to help others as much as i can, I worked for the YMCA for a long
  7. Are they likely to come on a Saturday? I was kind of sighing with relief that they might leave me alone on the weekends? Thanks Rae, I appreciate all your help, Youre a star. If at all possible, It would be great if you were able to draft a letter for me, You seem to know a hell of alot more about things than i do and the frame of mind im in at the moment i find it hard to do much, Ofcourse if its no problem for you, Please dont feel you have to or put yourself out for it. Sorry i havent posted much tonight, I just feel super drained, im so tired i just need to rest, The Tonsil
  8. My neighbour is elderly too, I feel awful he had to go through that, all because of me. I don't want to put any pressure on him he's a sweet old man and he doesn't need any stress, I'm shocked they are asking my neighbours to sell me out though. I'm also very very worried that if they do break in, my 2 dogs will just run off and won't be seen again, may sound sad but as we were unable to have children our dogs kind of took that role and they mean the world to us, so I'm worried for their sake too. I
  9. Thanks Ploddertom, I appreciate your help. The letter I was going to send is the template from the bailiff forum, I'm unable to copy here as I'm on my phone and I'm limited to what I can do. My ex is the real worry right now, I keep saying don't answer etc, but I'm so worried she will as she's ****ed off. I was told by my neighbour " 4 guys turned up in a White van around 11am, they knocked on the door repeatedly for 10 minutes very hard I was worried the glass on your door would break, one of them then took a ladder(is this legal????) and climbed the your front bedroom windows and
  10. Rae, I'm so sorry, I posted then went to bed, I wasn't ignoring u at all, sorry if u thought that. I haven't seen my gp, and not on medication. I don't sign on as i sometimes get work for a few weeks here and there, and to be honest didn't expect unemployment to last this long, I've always worked and never yet signed on, maybe it's time. I didn't expect such a quick response here so once again sorry for not replying quicker. Myself and my ex had a very big argument last night, I can't argue back really as I see totally her side, I need to fix this somehow we rent our hou
  11. I'm writing this literally at my wits end, Im physically shaking and ill with this. I have unpaid council tax, which i hold up my hands as my fault, Myself and my partner were paying things and i lost my job, and had a very tough time finding another making us default on our council tax, they sent it to the bailiffs, we had an arrangement and we stupidly missed a payment(we were sturggling paying our rent as i had lost my job) and we have gt letters saying they are coming to our house to REMOVE goods. The outstanding amount was £1000 roughly, its now £1400, im guessing their charges.
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