How much is it for if u don't mind me asking??

Hi all no haven't called them today been to the hospital everything okay not labour but had to stay in long as the babys heart rate was to high, will call them in the morning and post an update on how I get on thanx again everyone ur great x

So I should just call them back and say that I want to declare a change in circumstances for last year in regards to childcare payments which has resulted in an over payment can they help me sort it and arrange a payment plan to give the money back, do u think that sounds okay and to the point, or should I just tell them that I have used the childcare money on other bill and things and want to confess the over payment as fraudulent, sorry keep saying this just want to get this sorted I've got 4wks and 5 days and counting till my baby arrives and would like some kind of piece of mind that it's getting sorted what ever the outcome

Just got through and I think I messed it up, they asked me what I earned last yr I told them and they said ok anything els I can help u with I said yes I need to report a change in circumstances about childcare cost for last year the advisor then said we don't need to no that because I don't have an active claim and put the phone down, do I try them again should I make it easier and just say I have committed tax fraud and need to inform u, the stress is killing me I can't even get this wright

Thanx for trying erika all I can do is call again tomor and hope for the best, it means so much to me that there are people like u and the other giving me advice willing to give up there time to help people like me I thank you all from the bottom of my heart and will keep u updated x

Still trying still can't get through, have to call them 1st thing tomor they r open Sundays I think, could I tell a White lie and say I never received a renewal pack,

38 times I've tryed the landline number is saying the same as 0845 number it goes through the message and then all advisors r busy good bye.

Tryed calling land line number too can't get through omg what an ideot I've been this is going to make everything a hole lot worse what can I do it's hopeless

i keep trying whats the worst that'll happen if i call them 1st thing monday? or is there another number i can call

on the phone keep trying but the line is busy with people trying to renew, is there another number i can call to sort this out want to get it over with wilst i have the nerve

thank erika and mr lex gonna call them soon, do u have any idea how long these things go on for just feell like my life is on hold got my baby due on the 3rd sep i should be over joyed but can't with the worry of what i've done, i have been looking on this site for a few months trying to read other peoples storys that are in the same kind of trouble not never seem to be an outcome i.e if they had to repay it back and prosicution, just want my life back

Im working up the nerve to do it, I'm so scared if it wasn't for my son and the baby due in 5 weeks I think I would have done something stupid to myself I can't believe just how much I have let myself and my family down, I'm 30 yes old and have been getting chest pains because of what I have done, thank you for helping me I'll let u no how I get on after I call them, just wish I new what I was doing or saying as it very vage on the time scale and I don't have proof of how much I have paid and how much I could owe

I don't live near you wish I did for the support. I'll call them today just trying to get up the nerves to do it, I don't have anything with regards to how much I have paid to the childcare I paid on my debit card, do i tell them how much i think i've been overpaid its just a guess, do i tell them i've been overpaid or that i've committed frand,I'm so scared

Again thanx for taking the time to reply the number u gave in ur first reply if I call that on Monday morning how do I go about telling them do I say that have committed fraud? Do I need all the payment info such as how much has been payed to the childcare coz I don't know how much will they check? Also I received a tax credit annual review for for last year as everyone has but have not sent this off as I didn't want to implicate myself further I just want to tell the truth, u also said I could talk to cab this is very hard to do where I live as there always so busy is there someone els I can talk to about this just need to be sure I do this right and as soon as possible

Thank you both for taking the time to reply, I know no one can say what the outcome will be but from ur experience any guesses what will happen I just want to get this sorted my health is suffering due to my being an ideot, I feel so ashamed by my actions