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  1. Hi and thanks HB He asked to go and give info to file a separate greivance about P but when he turned up for the meeting the manager said 'tbh I dont think anyone will look at it' he got the impression the manager thought it was just tit for tat on his behalf as this was the first he had heard about it (not the DM reported to before). You're right about P he hasnt shown anyone anything, he likes the sound of his own voice and unfortunately his is the only one it seems that is being heard. Everyone in the store dislikes P, including management, and the DM who didn't take bf's complai
  2. Hi, No, he wasn't given a chance to arrange to have anyone go with him. He went into work one night and was asked by one of the manager to go to the office for a meeting
  3. Hi, I'm actually writing on behalf of my boyfriend. He has worked for a large chain of supermarkets for roughly a year and half, which has always had its problems but for the most part he was able to just go to work, do what he was asked to and leave with no problems. At the start of this year he was signed off sick for 6 weeks throughout this time he was called at least once a week asking to come in, when handing in sicklines was put down by boss/supervisors etc, then when he went back to work, was told to sit on a checkout as that was all he was good for now. Several other thi
  4. Thanks rebel. I havent paid anything for a long time as I have been so ill. I've had so much time off work, my job is in jeopardy if I have anymore time. I have 2 weeks booked off on annual leave soon though so will be able to relax then and know my job is safe, and I am going to have enough money to get to work next month. I suppose my main problem is no matter which way I look at it, I just dont have the funds to actually pay any of these people. They keep threatening legal action but haven't actually taken any, but how long does this go on for?!......
  5. Thankyou for quick replies. I had PPI on barclaycard card but that was cancelled when card was cancelled. I still dont feel strong enough at the moment to face these people. I am doing well to be back at work and coping but feel completely exhausted at the end of the day. Bank fodder - I did an income and expenditure sheet that I got from CAB (they gave me a template) but all I have left when everything is paid is £5.13 - not sure I'm going to get very far with that offer! My car is very small and relatively cheap to run. I need the car to get to work obviously, but also for w
  6. Hi, I posted a few times last year re debt but since then my mental health has taken a bit of a battering and now I feel swamped and don't know where to start.... Bit of background info - my partner left me last year with a lot of what was meant to be 'our' debt, approx 16k altogether, including a loan from RBS, cc with barclaycard, 2x catalogues and car finance. I feel like a complete idiot now, as all the debt was in my name but when we were together we did split it. Anyway, since he left me I have had a mini-breakdown, have been extremely depressed, paranoid and over-anxio
  7. What you are describing doesn't sound much like PF - ask for a referral to a Podiatrist as GP's are often quite hopeless with feet! I get hundreds of referals from GP's stating a patient has something and it ends up being something completely different. It sounds more like a biomechanical problem, in which case a full assessment and possibly orthoses should help.
  8. Hi Allnight, I am a podiatrist - regarding your bilat PF - you should have seen a biomechanics specialist and had orthoses made, has this happened? The PF may also be connected to hamstring/knee and back pain so perhaps something you may think about. Some areas of NHS have a self referral option. Who actually diagnosed your PF? As you say, it is the opposite of the 'usual' symptoms. As for mental health - you state you have met two people that have been diagnosed as bi-polar and are certain it's not that....I don't mean to sound rude, but many people manifest illnesses in differ
  9. Hi again, To cut a long story short, I was previously seeing a CAB advisor and we had both decided my best course of action would be sequestration. He advised me because I commute to work, and I need the car for work (house visits etc) then I would be able to keep that out the bankruptcy even though its still on finance because I had continued paying that consistently only once asking for an extra week but never missing a payment. The car is worth approx £2500. Anyway, my CAB advisor has left and the new person that has taken over well we dont really get along and I feel like shes rea
  10. Just a quick update! Still nothing from HR (bullying tactics all along I think!!) have got a permenant job elsewhere so it's my last day at the old place on Thurs. My boss seemed pretty annoyed when I handed my notice in on xmas eve so I think I may have ruined some more bullying plans they had for me in the new year....shame!! Thanks so much to everyone that gave me advice
  11. Thx Ida. I wasnt sure if I could, my CAB advisor has left and the woman thats taking his place dosnt have any appts til end of FEB!!
  12. Hi, Can you fill the forms out yourself and put in for your own sequestration through the LILA thing, or does it need to be signed by financial advisor/cab advisor? Thanks
  13. Thanks, I have kept a record of meetings etc as have my witnesses that came to meetings with me. Will keep you all updated with anymore shenanigans!
  14. Thats exactly what I think Natalie, however *fingers crossed* I have an interview on wednesday and if I get it can tell them to shove their job! Welshmam - Thats what I thought they'd do aswell but then again that costs money and why waste money when they can just bully you into leaving?! lol
  15. Short update - Still nothing from HR - my line manager thinks she'll forget?! (such good practice isnt it). I've been back to see my GP and discussed it with him and he said he doesn't see any reason why I'm not fit to work and the main aim in my treatment is to make sure I continue to work, so told me not to worry about it!
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