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  1. Hi sfwestyorks I'm Taking It That The Reply Was For Me ? If So Thanks I Have Started Sending My Lads Moey In Cheques And They Have Been Cashing Them.. Im Doing This As I Have Been Told That The Lads Where Not Getting Any Of It She Was Spending The Lost On Hols Ect.. So Seeing The Lads Are 16 They Are Not Quite Adults But Can Make There Own Mind Up, What Im Tryng To Ask Anyone Is If They Are Cashing The Checks Then Why Do I Have To Pay Csa For Them ?:?
  2. Help with the csa Hi sorry for adding this to the thread as i did put my own in and did not get any where sorry if this is causing you some hassle i am new to this so please bear with me if i have posted this into the wrong section anyway here is my need had been separated from my wife for 10 years and have 2 children now aged 21 +16 only found out that she had put through a divorce in 2003 and was given everything and i mean everything house the lot..i had been giving her in the first few months of my separation all my wages yes i know don't say it...after a few months i needed to get a place of my own and decided to give her then £300 + per Month.. she took that no problem then the csa got involved and was taking then £450 per month that was over half my wage.... then after 3 years i lost my job and wet on job seekers so was unable to pay anything..then got a job stated paying her £15 per week as it was a low payed job.. the the csa bounced me taking £650 per month i could live on the 250 that was left so had to pack my job in..... had the letter from csa demanding payment... had then asked them send me all the data which they have but do not know what to do with it... she has not said that i had been paying her anything and i have no longer got proof as all back dated paperwork has gone... a little history having been sent a few weeks back the decree absolute it says that i have no legal right to the well being of my lads as from 2003 so why am i paying the csa.. can not get in touch with her as she sold up everything and moved with her new husband in a f.... BIG place and me just barely holding a flat together.. now then they are asking me to now pay £12000 + for the 16 year old ??? so any one can you put me in the right direction please
  3. Hi i am new to this so please bear with me if i have posted this into the wrong section anyway here is my need had been separated from my wife for 10 years and have 2 children now aged 21 +16 only found out that she had put through a divorce in 2003 and was given everything and i mean everything house the lot..i had been giving her in the first few months of my separation all my wages yes i know don't say it...after a few months i needed to get a place of my own and decided to give her then £300 + per Month.. she took that no problem then the csa got involved and was taking then £450 per month that was over half my wage.... then after 3 years i lost my job and wet on job seekers so was unable to pay anything..then got a job stated paying her £15 per week as it was a low payed job.. the the csa bounced me taking £650 per month i could live on the 250 that was left so had to pack my job in..... had the letter from csa demanding payment... had then asked them send me all the data which they have but do not know what to do with it... she has not said that i had been paying her anything and i have no longer got proof as all back dated paperwork has gone... a little history having been sent a few weeks back the decree absolute it says that i have no legal right to the well being of my lads as from 2003 so why am i paying the csa.. can not get in touch with her as she sold up everything and moved with her new husband in a f.... BIG place and me just barely holding a flat together.. now then they are asking me to now pay £12000 + for the 16 year old ??? so any one can you put me in the right direction please
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