Just wanted to pop back to say thanks for your help:) i sent off the letter and had a phone call from someone apologising but couldnt find where my phone number was connected to them ,,, it eventually transpired my letter had not went to HFO but a place called Roxburghe? apparently HFO is their parent company? Anyway i had taken the address off their website but as soon as i mentioned HFO she realised what had happened and promised she would have my number taken off their list and i wouldnt receive any more calls. I also told her about the calls i had from a mobile number and she was delighted i had taken the number down so i could give it to her:) Anyway,, no more phone calls from them at all so once again,, thank you so much:)

Oh yes,,, how simple. thanks:)

thanks again for all your help. The thing is about saying i am prepared to communicate in writing,, i honestly cant see why i should have to communicate with them at all:mad: I will definatley see about having him taken off the electoral roll at this address, i can only think he has just ben left on with him being in the forces,,, and i have probaby just put the last form to one side and not changed the details out of forgetfulness or laziness:rolleyes:

Ok thanks again:)

Thank you so much, DG and cerberusalert. So i can just ask at the Library to check if he is still listed as living here,,, I honestly dont think he is as he has been left home quite few years,, and when he first left home it was to join the RAF,,, he left the RAF about a year ago or a bit more maybe.

I have seen a few posts here about HFO and helpful advice. My problem is the same as in im getting phone calls from HFO, but the phone calls are not for me but for my son. he does not live with me any more and hasnt for a good while,, i do have a mobile number which i have given them but they are still calling me and talking about black marks against my address etc. and the last phone call saying i was lying about my son not living here,,, this is because i dont know where he is living but they are saying he is still at my address as far as the electoral roll is concerned... I dont think he is but dont know how to find out? do i have to just keep putting up with these calls? should i just put the phone down when i relise who it is? The other day a lady who called said someone was coming to my house to investigate? Any help at all would be appreciated. thank you.