Have read your thread with great interest, just wanted to say I was in a very similar situation. My debt and lack of disposable income was affecting every aspect of my life, my relationship was crumbling (it still not great, but at least it's not about money so much now!).
I stumbled upon this website whilst looking into some kind of financial solution, and have read avidly every day since. I have entered into a DMP, sent CCA requests and am far more clued up than I have ever been.
Life is slowly, but steadily getting better.
So, I just wanted to say, keep your chin up and the ve