He would be here a few times a week to spend time with our daughter. She had spinal cord surgery as a baby and after we had to learn to catheter her and bowel needed managing for the rest if her life. I would let her go out for a couple of hours but she needed to be home as I did all of her care

Im sure lodging agreement won't be enough proof especially as he didnt move post despite me asking hundreds of times. He didnt feel the post was safe where he was and he was flitting about too much

Not heard if I have a meeting, sent the documents they asked for Monday. Am expecting they’ll ask for one though.

Seeing cab on Friday, going to docs in the morning....the more I’m reading the more paranoid I’m getting, please may my posts be deleted ? Looks like a lost cause to me

What documentation would I need?

He moved jobs in November and he was lodging with friends. He's just told me he put my address on the new payslips though...but can get a letter from who he was staying with

I’m still not making sense am I? I will get back to this in the morning, 48hours awake is making me brain dead

Then I misunderstood you I’m sorry Have no joint documentation to say we have ever been living together I didn’t claim as joint and never have.

Then I misunderstood you I’m sorry

Apologies it had been a long night. No, he's never paid any bills. The only documentation is the mortgage. We never had any joint finances relating to here. Ive always paid everything as I have huge insecurities relating to being in control. It was always my house, my bills. Expected him to leave at any time due to my me tal bealth problems. We broke up pretty early in the relationship then became friends

Ive checked Experian and its only the mortgage that shows on my credit report

Sadly not, just hoping all my bumph has got to hmrc the tracking has it stuck being collected and signed for in Wolverhampton?? Was supposed to arrive before 1pm.

Thank you, from what the lady at cab said earlier I could still be liable for overpayments as my daughters dad is the last person that should have helped despite being a friend

Got through to cab, they say they can help going Friday

Before that time the payment was maintenance of a lower amount.