Welcome to the site.
Yes your points are valid and true.Unfortunately some courts are denying the claimant stay relief for
hardship because they simple remain oblivious to the OFT waiver.
However where the defence ARE aware of your arguements and oppose the lifting or imposition of the stay-you should take this up with the reg bodies since they have a responsibility to comply with the OFT waiver agreements conditions.
The OFT waiver has no statute so its up to Judges.
Many Judges are saying that by definition harship could equally apply to anyone-since everyone has debts.
The problem it seems is the sketchy definition of what constitutes
hardship.
Since you seem well aware of the process,thats some consolation in addressing it.
Insofar as compensation as a result of the Banks taking adverse action as a result of a complainants-yes its certainly a route available.
The revisions in the banking codes this year also set out guidelines about this,and although only voluntary this was prompted by the FSA and OFT who told them to do it themselves or be forced into it.
The good news is that there will be consultation in Westminister soon in which there are plans to have the banking codes regulated.
Will not be a day too soon.
Read about this here;
Watchdog muscles in on high street accounts | Money | The Guardian