Thread: alzheimers nursing care.

Hi I wonder whether anybody could advise please.

I was not sure whether this would be the right section to post this in but thought I would try.

My sister - in - laws mother in her early eighties has been unwell - was taken into hospital with an infection - whilst in hospital her usual forgetfulness turned into full blown alzheimers - really bad. After several weeks in hospital my sister in law was told that she had to find a nursing home for her mum - there is no way that she can be cared for at home as she needs round the clock attention etc.....

Basically the problem is that my sister-in-laws dad is paying £3,000 a month for this care because he has a little bit of savings. They are not wealthy by any means - simply that he had been careful and saved a bit etc....Whenever my sister-in-law has tried to look into things she has been told that alzheimers is not classed as an illness etc......It most certainly `is` a medical illness.....I wonder what would happen once her dad`s savings are gone - will they have to sell their house....

I do find this whole issue so very wrong....They have always ploughed into the state but there just never seems to be any help when you need it.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you

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Tiglet - Thank you so much for your reply.
I certainly will pass the information on to my sister in law.
There actually is no way that she could be cared for at home even with extra help.....apparently she is extremely bad. Infact my sister-in-law`s sister is a nurse and she and her husband actually own a residential home for the elderly but she could not even be looked after there because she needs intensive nursing care 24/7. Every angle has been looked at - even to hiring a full time nurse but that is totally out of the question as so expensive - they insisted on having her home for christmas - back to her own house - and it was a real exercise in convincing everybody that she could not be cared for at home.
Thank you again Tiglet - will pass info on.
With best wishes
PS - I am in Kent too.

Thanks Tiglet!

All the best.

I'm going off track a bit, but do you know that if someone is being disharged from hospital into a residential home, after being detained under a section 3 Mental Health Act 1983, they are not liable to pay any fees, these are covered under the system.

Dear Emma and diddled

Thank you both very much for your help.....Diddled, she was actually transferred from hospital to a nursing home and was kept in hospital until a suitable home was found but I don`t think anything else applies - but thanks.

Emma - thank you - I have passed info on - my sister in law had been told about the Coughlan case - what also seems to be a problem apparently is that she has actually been classed as having dementia rather than Alzheimers...I feel that I disagree.....I am sure that things will be sorted out eventually ...many thanks again for info. Good luck with the review of your mum`s nursing costs - hope all works out for you/

Best wishes

Dear Tiglet

Many thanks for your helpful post....I shall of course pass this on.....thanks for all your help.

Take care.

Diddled, I have only just `got` your name - very good - I love it! I am still trying to muster up the courage of actually posting my prelim letter because of being `diddled`.

Emma hi

Thanks very much. I shall pass the info on. I am sure it will be very helpful.

Thanks again - much appreciated.

Best wishes

hi rcr50 they are when when they say that alzheimers is a form of dementia,depending on which part of the brain it affects deppends on what it is called,did your sister in law no enquire about home care? any more help give me a shout as im a carer and what i dont no i will find out.

I just found this thread as I am in a similar position with my 84 year old father. He had a stroke in 1996 which affected the left side of his body. He had some mobility but this has now been decimated by arthritis. His memory has gradually been getting worse and he was hospitalised a month ago with an infection. This has cleared up but they won't release my father because it is too risky. They have decided he needs to go into a care home, so we are now going through the process of a)finding one and b) finding one that will accept him with the numerous medical conditions he is suffering from. One home has already turned him down because his behaviour is too unpredicatable.

I had already found the Alzheimers Society website and I am ready to fight the war over the NHS continuing care and their obligations. I know it will be a long battle, but the info that the Alzheimers Society have on their website is excellent and I know that this is a winnable battle.

Emma, many thanks for your kind offer. We are at the stage where the panel will assess whether or not my father meets their criteria for continuing NHS care and I am 99.99% certain they will reject it, so when that happens I will take you up on your offer and drop you a PM.

Thanks again

I won't be attending the panel as my parents live some distance away, but I have written a detailed letter (using the guidance on the Alzheimers Society website) to put forward the case as to why we feel my fathers care should be funded by the NHS.

I know a lot depends on the PCT as it can vary from one PCT to another, but I am primed and ready to take the matter as far as I need to if necessary.