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My ex-partner and I split up in 2003 and we were fortunate to have two properties and two endowments/life assurances relating to them.
We agreed verbally to take one endowment each,relating to the property that we held on to,and I subsequently signed a Deed of Assignment for the policy held by my ex removing my interest.
My ex even asked me to remove her from my policy,which I duly completed a Deed of Assignment for that one,Norwich Union,but unknown to me,she didn't send it back to NU for action.
More recently,I stopped the DD's and the policy has now been stopped.Norwich Union is currently retaining the funds,pending an agreement between the ex and I.
The problem is the following:
NU is saying since both our lives are insured,we are both owners of the policy.
As such,it wants both our agreement as to how to divide the money.
My ex,bless her,is now claiming half my NU policy now she has had all of the first one.
What pains me is that NU have confirmed in writing that all payments from the start of the policy have come direct from me,yet my ex appears to have me over a barrel,simply since I took care of her when we were together................
When we split,we each took the relevant Policy document,without which we cannot surrender,and indeed continued to reside in the respective houses.
I can't find the particular email from the ex asking to be removed,although have had a very helpful one more recently,gloating how she'll either take half now,or half later.................and thanks if I keep up the payments!!
What can I do to move forward-I have emailed the ex for a year now,and she simply doesn't respond.I callled her office the other day,and she was 'suddenly' in a meeting,and have even offered her 1000 to sign out,but still no joy.
Advice,case law or input from anyone in the know at NU??!!
I can't be the first person to face a vexacious ex on an endowment problem?!!