It's honestly just that i told the manager on my way out that i should involve the police for them discriminating against a disabled child that's worrying me..he seemed like the type to go out if his way to upset people. So allday I sat shaking hoping the police wouldn't turn up.

Yes but I did something wrong. In swapping the toy. Even though it was payed for in the end. Surely they will dismiss me because of that.

I've considered it. But I dont need the hassle. I was going to ask to speak to head manager as I felt the guy I dealt with was on a power trip. Just feel sorry for my poor son who now can't enjoy his weekly trip to the onsite cafe (where the staff adore him) it's the only time we get to do something like that as he won't settle in any other cafe (needs to be familiar) and it took us a year to settle him visiting this one.

Thank you. I understand the banning but the fact I wasn't told of it upsets me then called a liar infront of a shop full of people. Also the security guard (who supposedly banned me) only told me i shouldn't bring my disabled son in if he was going to cause problems. I find that offensive. I have found stores who will deliver the goods needed thank you. I shouldn't worry? When you say currently does that mean they may do something in the future even if I dont return to Store?

Let me start with a little back story. My son is 3 and disabled I am his sole carer 24/7 without a break or sleep most if the time. I have no problem with this as he is my baby and i love him. But it gives context. About a month ago it was in Tesco shopping i did self scan and after half an hour of my son having a melt down because of the noise we finally got to the pay bit. I had just got my card out to pay when a security guard shot over and asked if I had paid for the £4 toy my son was holding. Now if you have ever experienced a meltdown you can understand I was all over and stressed I had forgotten however I accepted my mistake payed for the item and that was it. after this I started using the normal checkout so that I have to check everything. A few weeks later I was shopping with my son again and he picked up and opened a toy. I put the packaging in the trolley to be paid for. My son dropped the little toy i went to the toy part and picked up a new one and put the old one back. I admit this was stupid but he had screamed for about 20mins about the missing one and my brain was in overload close to tears myself. I'd paid for the toy and my shopping the guard (same one) pulled me and my disabled son back to the front desk. They had spotted me do the swap (pretty sure he was watching me all the time I was in) I apologised and offered to pay for the old toy and that was it over. Oh and another guy walked over and threw the packaging at me aggressively. Safter this I stopped taking my son shopping. I have my dad drive him around till I'm done. I'm making the effort. I've been in everyday since the incident today a snotty manager pulls me up when I'm put my stuff on the conveyer belt and ask me if i should be in store. I have him a confused look and he said I had been asked not to return. This was not the case and I told him I wouldnt have come in if I had been told this. He called me a list. i had some nappies for my son and milk for him. I asked if I could just pay then go. He said no. Then threatened me with the police. After leaving the store my mama bear kicked in as i felt he was attacking my son. I explained that they are the only store that sells the things my son needs ( he will only have certain milk nappies and food which I can get anywhere else and i dont drive) he said he didnt care that it was my problem. I explained about my son and that i had made of not taking him in (which is very hard for my son) and he threatened me again. i said he was discriminating against a disabled child and walked out. Now I know they can ban whoever they like. But im sat here terrified I'm going to get arrested and taken away from my son. He seemed the type totty to be a ... and the security guard is a guy i went to school with who use to bully me. If the product never left the store can they so anything? And i paid both times. Also are they discriminating towards my son? Im prone to panic attacks and I've had 7 today.