Thank you @ericsbrother

Yeah that's a good idea...thank you

@unclebulgaria67: Oh thank you very much my dear, for your information. If the security recognise me will they call police? Normally I go shopping with my family member if they say anything to me infornt of them I'll be very embarrassed ..that's the only thing I'm worried about?

@silverfox1961 OMG!! Thank you very much my dear. Your idea gave me a sense of relief.... Do you think I shouldn't go to Sainsbury's at all. Will they recognise me and call the police if I go there?!?

Yesterday, I went one of my local Sainsbury's for shopping. As I was pushing a buggy it was quite difficult for me to carry a basket. Although I picked a basket. After putting all the stuff in the basket it seemed very heavy, then I started to put some item in my baby buggy's basket .when i went to the till I forgot to pay for those item which were in my buggy. When I was going out,the alarm went off then security checked me and found those unpaid item, my intention wasn't to steal anything at all. I explain them mistake could happen.. I said sorry to the manager, they took me and my baby to the premises and made me sign in a paper and kept my name, address and let me go. They said I'm banned for life in any Sainsbury's in U.K. Im totally broken. i don't know what to do .couldnt sleep or eat ever since. I have two children to look after. I'm just thinking this is the end of the world.. My husband still doesn't know anything.and I don't want him to know about all this this is the only Sainsbury's I have as a local shop. Everyone in my family go to that specific shop. Can someone suggest me something for relief please?!! What am I expecting next? How much Do I have to give penalty charge? If I don't pay it, will they send any debt collector to my address? What is going to happen if I go the store next time? PLEASE!!!PLEASE!!! Someone help me PLEASE!!!!

Priyadr11: did you pay£150? Did they ever come to your address to collect the money? The same thing happen to me yesterday. i said sorry and they made me sign in a paper and let me go. Could you tell me what can I expect? I really don't want to let anyone know about this because I live in a extended family. .I'm really broken ..couldn't eat or sleep ever sinc ..can anyone suggest me what I'm going to do ..I'm regretting very badly.. ..��I feel like my life is just going to stop now...