i dunno, to be honest the way they've handled it from the outset should have told me i was wasting my time. its a shame, but i dont think i can be bothered with the hassle. live life be happy and all that. its too much stress, i don't like to roll over but i think i've got to admit i've tried and failed. the photo is just circumstntial and it would just be my luck that they'd fight it and win. i guess this is a lesson learned about how the law works in the uk.

interesting development. received a call from her b/f last night. luckily i recorded it. basically they're saying i cost them money because i bloced her in (she wasnt properly blocked in, she got out and was at work 15/20 mins late). accusing me of harassment even tho i've only spoken to her twice on the issue. said if i ever did it again i'd cause more trouble than i know. I said I wouldn't block her in again, and I'm not going to because I only did it so she would speak to me. every time I asked about the mystery clean patch on the car the convo was diverted he said several times that i couldn't prove it. he accused me of doing it because there's damage on the wing mirror that was on the car when i bought it! then i was getting irate and was telling him the policeman said it was her, he told to write to her and see what happened, he didnt tell me to block her car in but i thought what the hell as i'd heard nothing from her... he then said i'd said the policeman told me to do it and he's gonna call the police and tell them what i said.. clearly this Neanderthal is trying to bully me, i dont expect to hear from the police on this matter. the recording is clear as day, i clearly said the policeman didnt tell me to block her in. I can't believe the nerve of these people, accusing me of harassment when i've spoken to her twice about the matter. any thoughts guys? thinking about getting a solicitor to the the lba. I'm quite sure she wont provide her insurance details, or answer the letter. i need opinions, as I'm unsure what the best course of action is.

unfortunately my house does not look over the alleyway so the CCTV claim is not an option. When she's been presented with evidence (photographs posted with a letter, showing a nice clean bit on the rear drivers bumper but the rest of the car hasn't been washed in weeks) and challenged on it when i spoke to her she's just hung up on me. the only reason i got to speak with her in the first place is because i blocked her car in the alleyway. i won't be doing that again for obvious reasons but i will write the lba.

thanks endymion! i'm now thinking about doing the lba... if that fails then i'll stop

do you know what part of the law states she has to provide details? thanks

thanks for the advice guys... having written 3 letters to her already i think theres not much point in trying to pressure her more as she'll just ignore it like the others. I blocked her car in the alleyway this morning with my car, so she rang and spoke to me to ask me to move it. she denied it strenuously but when i asked her to explain why her rear bumper was clean that day she hung up! unfortunately as much as I'd like to do something about it I am bound by my morals to act within the law. bum.

2 weeks ago i came home from work to find a big dent in my car wing. on looking around it was obvious that it had to be from a car reversing out of the alleyway opposite to where the car was parked. looked around and hey presto my neighbours car which is always parked down there had a nice clean patch on the rear drivers side bumper and a new scratch. she's hit my car, then cleaned all the evidence from her car, then just hoped i wouldn't figure out who it was. the police are useless and wont do anything without witnesses even tho the officer involved said it couldn't have been anyone but her. I am 3rd party insured with no legal assistance, my insurance wont do anything. theres no real damage to her car, its a bloody range rover and she's hit me with the most solid part of her car! she's avoiding me. i've called, knocked on the door, left 3 letters spelling out that i know it was her, including photographs showing the only part of her car that was clean that day was the part that hit me... and nothing! the evidence is staring her in the face, i know she's done it but in the absence of any witnesses to the accident i appear to be up the creek without a paddle.... is there any action i could take here? what can i do?