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Originally Posted by icklejolee I was employed to care for disabled people with learning difficulties. My employer sent me to a service where the person I supported decided he didn't like me so would try his best to assault me, report me for things I hadn't done and anything else he could do in the hope I would be taken off his support team. This went on from June 2006 until Feb 2007 when I decided I'd had enough. Told my doctor what was going on so he gave me a sicknote to excuse me from work due to stress. I submitted this to my employer along with another request to be moved to another team. My employer ignored all my calls and letters for two months before giving me a meeting where they were supposed to give me work. In this meeting they didn't have any work to offer me and ignored/took issue against all the problems I raised. Eventually the managers present called me a "smart arse" and I left the meeting still with no offer of work. I then attempted to arrange a meeting with the head of the company which took another five months to happen. When we eventually spoke he told me that what had happened shouldn't have gone on but that he wasn't going to do anything about it and I should come back to work as if nothing had happened. I told my boss that I was in such dire financial straights that I was going to have to move house out of the area but would be willing to travel if some compromise was made. He then told me that that I was "not robust enough" to do this kind of work although in my spare time I am a martial arts instructor! I told him this left me little choice but to resign. I have recieved advice from an employment solicitor who made a settlement offer but now she is really dragging her feet and my three month deadline to file a case of constructive dismissal is almost up. Should I go through with it myself? |
Hi,
After reading your post i felt i had to post with going through tribunal myself for sexual harrasment.
My advise to you is, really think before you put a case forward, its not stright forward as people make out, when i first started with my case i went to 'ACAS 'and they were great and guided me through the first lot of paper work and after that i went and got legal adivse and went with a no win no fee with my laywer firm who handled my divorce.
You have 3 months to get your paper work in and after that you wont stand a chance to go to court, can you not move solictors as if she dragging her feet now what she going to eb like when you go to court...? i was very lucky that i had a fantastic firm who has stuck by me and was great in all aspects with my case, its stressing and the law is fustrating i found and the person who has done wrong has more rights then you, for me i made the right choice and dont regret taking his sorry ass to court, after 2.5 years of hearings and his ass dragging things out, i won all 3 court cases but he wont pay up and i have just made him and his company bankrupt and one way or another i will get my money, as i dont go through all that for nothing.
My advice is, change solictors and move on with things if this is the path you think you should take.
Hope this helps, sorry if long winded.