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honey5 · 19th July 2008, 16:38

im gonna blow here i can feel it

sorry need a rant

two little ones (one with special needs and chronic lung disease other with chronic lung disease and chronic asthma) went with ex last night, as they do on a friday thru til sat, hes a diabetic. Hes totally off his face with his sugar levels, the two kids have had to run to a neighbours for help (thankfully she took her twin brother with her and has acted really responsible in this situation) Two kids are hysterical, i dont drive and havent a clue where their father lives grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr rrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Ambulance is there now and neighbour wanted to send the two kids home in a taxi on their own, but have had to explain too her that they are only 12 and therefore its not allowed.
Im gonna kill him i swear, hes 53 and has had it since being 16, controlled by injection 4x a day so hes not stupid!!
Well no thats wrong hes completely stupid and incapable of looking after his two kids, and he wonders why the eldest wants nothing to do with him

sorry had to get it out

honey x

forgottenone · 19th July 2008, 16:45

(((Honey5)))

wino · 19th July 2008, 17:00

PM on its way

bigbutcute · 19th July 2008, 17:25

Not being funny here, but i certainly wouldn't let my kids go without first have a contact address

honey5 · 19th July 2008, 17:32

Yes i agree and there is a contact order thru the courts for his access, all with his OLD address on, he has recently moved and all i have right now is a telephone number

I complained at the hearing that i had no address and he gave his sisters, i explained this to the judge and he said "that is his contact address, so you do have one"
i knew full well he didnt live there as he was 3 doors away from us at the time and his sisters address is half an hour away

schrodingers cat · 19th July 2008, 17:41

Quote:

Originally Posted by honey5

im gonna blow here i can feel it

sorry need a rant

two little ones (one with special needs and chronic lung disease other with chronic lung disease and chronic asthma) went with ex last night, as they do on a friday thru til sat, hes a diabetic. Hes totally off his face with his sugar levels, the two kids have had to run to a neighbours for help (thankfully she took her twin brother with her and has acted really responsible in this situation) Two kids are hysterical, i dont drive and havent a clue where their father lives grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr rrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Ambulance is there now and neighbour wanted to send the two kids home in a taxi on their own, but have had to explain too her that they are only 12 and therefore its not allowed.
Im gonna kill him i swear, hes 53 and has had it since being 16, controlled by injection 4x a day so hes not stupid!!
Well no thats wrong hes completely stupid and incapable of looking after his two kids, and he wonders why the eldest wants nothing to do with him

sorry had to get it out

honey x

dont blame ya at all dont care who you are if you cant look after your kids your access should be supervised or not exist at all being a parent just doesn`t involve being there at conception,hope ya feel better for ya rant

jowalshy · 19th July 2008, 17:42

OMG Honey.

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sillygirl1 · 19th July 2008, 17:49

That is dreadful - can't you go back to the courts and say they can only have supervised access due to his inability to control his illness - a diabetic coma isn't a pleasant thing to see at any age - let alone 12 years old....

bigbutcute · 19th July 2008, 17:53

Quote:

Originally Posted by honey5

Yes i agree and there is a contact order thru the courts for his access, all with his OLD address on, he has recently moved and all i have right now is a telephone number

I complained at the hearing that i had no address and he gave his sisters, i explained this to the judge and he said "that is his contact address, so you do have one"
i knew full well he didnt live there as he was 3 doors away from us at the time and his sisters address is half an hour away

Don't miss understand me, you now have the position to put the ball in your court, the father has failed to inform you of his new address and the result being your children ended up in a position which caused them severe distress and yourself on the principle that you couldn't get to them because you didn't now where they were.

honey5 · 19th July 2008, 17:54

i spent 12.5k fighting this thru the courts 18 month ago, to protect the kids, after he was in the same state and was about to push them over the top of an escalator in town, went back to court and asked for supervised access and the judge said "he is their father he is entitled to see his children, until the children actually state they dont want to see him"

Guess all i can do now is keep them home and wait for him to push for access once again? i dunno, would i end up in trouble as there is an order in place? do one of the kids have to be seriously hurt before notice will be taken?

thanks for the support

honey x

stikky62 · 19th July 2008, 19:55

Let it go back to court. He's not entitled if he's unfit to look after them properly. Let the kids have their say.

This wont do him any favours at all

edit: Hey Honey, an answer to you from the tarrot card thread

Quote:

It’s important to nurse the precious things in life and keep them safe

right on!

honey5 · 19th July 2008, 21:03

the kids are now home, thankfully

theyre worn out due to the worry, but smiling as the ambulance man told them they had done a fantastic job and saved dads life.

Brooke said he started being a bit "odd" at about 11am and she waited until 2:30 to get help when he shouted at her to go and get a whirlpool from blackpool

He was unconcious and theyd had to break the door down as the kids had gone too his neighbours and locked the front door.

thanks to everyone on here xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
honey x

blue4ever · 19th July 2008, 21:08

Looks Like Brooke Has Been A Star

schrodingers cat · 19th July 2008, 21:11

baffles me how you can have something for 37 years and still not be able to cope with it
glad they are ok tho

honey5 · 19th July 2008, 21:11

she has certainly as last weekend jack was there on his own and wouldnt have realised

shes been praised

just need to think of something extra special for her now

honey5 · 19th July 2008, 21:15

Quote:

Originally Posted by schrodingers cat

baffles me how you can have something for 37 years and still not be able to cope with it
glad they are ok tho

its not a case of not coping with it its a case of denial, always has been with him. He is a big drinker and probably out the night before and its caught up as usual

Hopeful1 · 19th July 2008, 21:49

Oh Honey, you must have been in such a state. It sounds like you do need to deal with it through the court. It would be sod's law that if you don't you'd end up punished. Can you say your withdrawing access until then though? If they're not safe it seems completely unreasonable that you can be told they have to go.

I'm glad they're home safe

I think your rant was very mild considering.

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