Hi moonpixiewitch,
I just thought I would offer a bit of moral support and hopefully some useful info.
Your story sounds similar to mine and I too went bankrupt 10 years ago this August after being screwed by the RBS. The term for me was 3 years before I was discharged in '99.
During that time I managed to sneak onto my b/friends NatWest account as a joint account holder, he later removed himself from the account and opened up a new account with another bank and left me as the sole account holder. The account was and still is a standard current account with cash/chq grntee/debit card and cheque book. At the time as I was applying to be a joint holder of an existing account, NW didn't ask if I was bankrupt and as I wasn't asking for any credit I wasn't obliged to tell them. I don't know if this is still possible with any bank, maybe not but I hope someone on here may be able to tell you for sure. If you know of a willing participant with a good credit history it might be worth exploring.
Have you got recent copies of your credit files from Equifax and Experian? If not then it's definitely worth doing so as there may be lots of ways you can clean up your credit history. Also, did you get the actual notice of discharge from the OR?
Once you are discharged from bankruptcy the OR cannot make any more claims on your income/earnings etc to pay back your creditors. Only in certain circumstances (if the bankruptcy was as a result of criminal activity for instance) would the OR be able to make any further claims on your income after discharge and it would have been clearly stipulated in your bankruptcy.
As claiming back bank charges from a bank (possibly from a bankruptcy period) is a very recent development I haven't learned for sure yet whether the OR has any claims on refunds after bankruptcy discharge but I am inclined to think not. Afterall, they would have to know that you had got the charges back in the first place and if your situation is anything like mine then you won't have heard from the OR since you filed for bankruptcy. Once you are discharged from bankruptcy you are not obliged to tell the OR anything.
Although it's not proven whether it can be done yet, I am compiling all my RBS bank records from 1989 to 1996 to make a case for claiming back charges for that period. After all, it is my belief that it was the £12000 worth of charges that were levied on my account that were a major contributing factor to me going bankrupt in the first place. There's a fair bit of discussion on the forum at the moment on the subject of pre 6 year claims so it might be worth you having a browse on the subject.
It certainly didn't take me 10 years to get back on track so don't despair! I'm self employed which makes things even more difficult but I'd say it took me about 4 years from discharge in '99. I spent that time living in rented accomodation, cleaning up my credit history and working hard and I now run a successful business, own my own house and have a mortgage, a business account, a personal account, a savings account, a debit card, two credit cards, 2 cats and the same boyfriend!
I hope this has given you a bit of hope, just be patient and spend a bit of time repairing yourself and your credit and you'll get there. There's lots of good advice to be had from this forum so any questions you have just ask and I'm sure someone will have the right answer for you.
Minnie
