you are lovely. after reading your email to inga minga i have found the courage to email myself...ept i wasnt as polite as you

. explained that abbey requested a stay of a month to settle amicably but havent. so if they dont start making noises by 16 of this month then the court will be notified . boo hoo she will probably think. i explained the the oft case has nothing to do with settling on an amount and that the abbey asked for the stay to settle AFTER the oft case was set in motion.
I am poooooooooooooooooing my pants now. will have to copy and send to court as they need to know that SOMEONE is trying to resolve. And will request that the stay is lifted .
I couldnt do this without all of your help as I am feeling low . I feel so sad when i read some of the stories on this site , so I know my situation is not as deperate as some .
